I mean how does it really go when making love? the first time and afterwards??? I had only oral sex with my girlfriend but never the real thing..
2006-12-10 22:57:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Generally for the man it doesnt hurt.But for the woman it does but not for everyone.For the following times it will be the same for the woman,if its the first times for her that is.
Try to relax and get some erotic movies or guides to help both of you get along with it.
2006-12-10 23:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kaushall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man it doesn't hurt at all , but for the woman you have to be kind and try to make her relax and to use a lot of foreplay till she is soft and lubed and then you can use more lubs even to give her extra help .
To take care of her don't try it next day even if she asked for it .
2006-12-11 07:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As far as i'm aware it doesnt hurt the guy at all. It can hurt for the girl, it just depends. My first time didnt hurt at all, but a lot of my friends did, so you never know till it happens. just take it slow if its her first time.
2006-12-11 07:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt for a man. I can't speak for all women, but the first time I had sex it hurt and I enjoyed it mentally but not physically.
2006-12-11 08:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Beth T 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For girls it hurts alot the first time and for a few episodes after that. You need to buy a lubricant to reduce the pain and you have to be gentle the first time.The greater effect is emotional and you have to prepare for this early enough.
2006-12-11 07:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
just remember to take it slow and easy the first time....it can be uncomfortable but shouldn't be painful......there may be some bleeding from your gf....make sure that she is well lubricated before you enter her....don't judge lovemaking with her by your first experience...it may be awkward and somewhat uncomfortable...as you do it more often and figure out what feels really good for each of you, it will get better.....before you do this though, make sure you are ready for sex and take precautions against pregnancy and disease.....good luck
2006-12-11 07:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally it's quick for the guy and painful for the girl. The first time won't be the best time.
2006-12-11 07:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not for the man I can't say what the woman feels
2006-12-11 07:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't hurt until the next day when she calls you to tell you it wasn't really her first time.
2006-12-11 07:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Red Winged Bandit 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes it hurts a lot.
2006-12-11 07:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by malcolmmataz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋