My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-10 23:14:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes and u need to stay away from him hes in sane
2006-12-10 23:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by someones sister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of this guy. You do not need someone who will abuse you or hurt you emotionally, or mentally. You can get a restraining order. Take your phone to the Police with these text messages on it as proof that this person could be a danger to you. Tell your parents too, as they can help you. I don't know how old you are, but nobody deserves to be called a Cheap girl, or be with someone who gets jealous because you are dancing with someone else, and abuses you. You deserve so much better. I would go to the Police.
2006-12-10 23:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by anniwhoozle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get out of this situation. You're being abused, and clearly, it is something that is affecting you. So, back to your question, why do you even bother to find out if he still wants to talk to you? Why should you put yourself through this and get hurt again and again? Do you think this is what love is supposed to be? Love and care is something that brings no pain. Also, not to sound rude, but seriously, you have to change your mindset. Ladies should feel that they are not objects of men to play around. You should have more confidence in yourself and move on.
2006-12-10 23:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by AQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
print out those messages youll need them when you go for the restraining order.. ILL SAY THIS ONCE pay attention. Dont be an idiot, do not have anything to do with a guy that is abusive in any way to. Its wrong and you certainly dont deserve it nor do you need to put up with it. If a guy treats you like that, why would you EVER want to go out with him? Do not reply to him anymore, in fact block his id from sending you stuff, dont talk to him on the phone ect . be done with him , go talk to whoever you want and date whoever you want, your allowed... Theres no reason trying to suck up to some little punk whos trying to controll you, or threten you into doing something.you just say goodbye and stop all corrospondence. ALL.
2006-12-10 23:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you are describing this guy, it would be a BLESSING if you never heard from him again as he sounds like a complete JERK!!! If he was abusing you physically that is a CRIME which makes him a CRIMINAL. You deserve better honey - go find somebody else that really loves you and will NOT treat you in this AWFUL way!!!
2006-12-10 23:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Paul H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
adult men who abuse women as he's abusing you, won't substitute over evening. except you get exhilaration from being abused with the help of him, i might recommend you block his text textile messages and get a restraining order. Abuse of this nature in uncomplicated terms grows, it would not end. you do not prefer to finally end up hospitalized or worse. you're a stable guy or woman and deserve greater effective than to be harm. no person merits harm. Take steps to furnish your self with protection now and pass on. there is somebody astonishing accessible basically waiting for you yet you're over finding them when you consider which you're too in contact in this mess you're in. stable success to you!
2016-10-14 11:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by fugere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You posted this a while back?
If this is true, you have seperation issues. It's no point sticking in a abusive relationship.
Stop wishing him to contact you.
Move on.
2006-12-10 23:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by freaky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He trusts his friends more than he trusts you? What does that tell you? Let him run with his little buddies.
I hope when everything is said and done with little abuser loser, you will stand proud and say to yourself, "whew! dodged that bullet!"
Your not responsible for his insecurities..please don't be a scapegoat...good luck
2006-12-10 23:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even bother?
You deserve better. No one has the right to abuse you.
Let him go and there'll be another man who'll sweep you off your feet... one who would respect you the way you should be respected.
2006-12-10 23:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by madrasta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start keeping all the meeages so if anything more of it comes go to the police or threaten that you have kept all the messages and are going to the police with them hopefully he goes away if not just go to the police
2006-12-10 23:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tyrone L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor guy! He IS in love with you, he doesn't know what to do. If you feel the same way meet him.... and tell him. He just feels betrayed that he gave you his all and all you can do is dance with another guy! if you love him, let him know. And apologise.All the best!
2006-12-10 23:20:30 · answer #11 · answered by pretty1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋