It doesn't matter what kind of question I ask, she gets defensive, and evasive. She tells me she can't help but feel I am fishing for something else besides an answer to the question (what ever it may be). I think its because she has some bullshit that she doesn't want me to find out about.
2006-12-10 19:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I live with her, and it could be a question like "can I take your car?, your parked behind me." Or "you want to go have a drink somewhere?" Have you seen my coat?
2006-12-10 19:53:02 · update #1
i beleive when an individual gets defensive like that, they do have something to hide. if they did not have anything to hide, they would pretty much blow it off as if it were all in your mind.
2006-12-10 19:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by alley g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 everyone has sh!t to hide no ones perfect, if your harboring thoughts of her cheating on you could that be the truth does she show less interest in you more and more by the day except just for the sex cause you can get her off the quickest or just cause your bringing in a butt load of cash or is it that you have no confidence withen your self and your wondering what she's doing with a guy like you when she could have some millionare with her body and smarts if thats the case find your confidence where you lost it no matter where just dont go killing someone to get it back. you know me and my lady are waiting to get married to lay all of our DEEP DARK SECRETS the ones we can never forget on the table so have you asked your self have you laid your heart,mind and your whole being on the table for her to see and she just dont wanna share if so dont worry about black mail thats for underminded children and just give her some time maybe her heart is a deep dark ocean of secrets of pain and sorrow and heart break that she would just rather forget so if you give her a lil time she just might let you see the bottom of her heart it just takes time and a GREAT deal of patience to truelly understand females.but if all that is not the case if you can smell another guys stink on her tell her THAT dont hold back and be done with it some usually dont give answers if they know it will hurt them or ruin the current circumstances or if you JUST KEEP HOUNDING THEM ABOUT IT.
2006-12-10 20:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by soki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too needy you need to move back in with your mom, can you do anything without help/confirmation? Find your own coat, move her car and take your own, what a cry baby. You need to be a man instead of dead weight.
2006-12-11 06:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Micha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you often do that? Or only recently? You might have annoyed her with all your probing without realising it. How do you feel if someone keep probing you? Everyone needs their own privacy and space. So do you, right? Have a good talk with her over this when she is in a better mood.
2006-12-10 20:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is this chick? A friend? Girlfriend? Acquaintance? Coworker? Complete stranger?
Are you trying to get something other than the answer to the question?
2006-12-10 19:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youre treating her like a child instead of a woman. Quit acting like her creepy big brother or dominating dad and start acting like a sweetheart. Peace.
2006-12-10 19:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to hear some of your questions! Whar are they about, and is she right when she thinks you are fishing for something else?
Ask her (if you can) to give an ex. of the question she would like to answer.
Or else drop her.
2006-12-10 19:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by KirstenP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i suggest u don't get over reacted, caused it may happening as what you think is happenin, just find the right time to ajust yourself, and ask her in respecful way, i m sure things will turn out well for you guys, Good Luck, anyways, o.k
2006-12-10 19:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Suzannah L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she find it annoying. Maybe its the questions you ask or maybe the way you ask them or the time. Find a good time when she is in good mood and don't ask questions which are accusing try to phrase your question carefully she might be sensitive by nature.
2006-12-10 19:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's cheating on you. Find another one before she does. Good luck
2006-12-10 19:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by stryc9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋