2006-12-10 19:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by kae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I imagine the physical exercise of packing his bags for him would calm me down a bit. I might even place them carefully on the front porch rather than throwing his stuff out the window. More to the point, I would forgive him but I would not keep him. There's a one strike rule when it comes to cheating.
2006-12-10 19:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by hairdvs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are quick to say no on this topic. But as for myself it depends on the circumstances. I mean if you have been with them for years and you can see your self making amends with the other then yes. It will be hard to trust them but after a while I am sure they will prove to you that they are truely sorry.
If you havent been together that long then no I would say let them go and find someone that truely does care and not all about how many women they can get.
2006-12-10 19:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by kort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgave my ex for cheating on me, but I couldn't forget. One of many reason's he became my ex.
When you forgive it's actually more for you than the person that cheated. It helps you let go of the anger and resentment, which makes you feel much better.
2006-12-10 19:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its too difficult to rebuild the trust that has just been destroyed. Its so much easier to get the trust in the first place, because the relationship has a clean slate. Once it gets dirty, its a hard stain to clean up.
2006-12-10 19:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by always_the_same_thing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, be be ready for the next time they cheat....cause they will!
I say forgive and move on, it will make you the better and bigger person....plus it will save you more, lots more heartache!!
2006-12-10 19:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by DREAMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I'd forgive him ..... as I was walking out the door.
2006-12-10 19:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by miladybc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just thinking about being unfaithful to someone I love makes me sick to my stomach. If he didn't have the same reaction, he isn't in love with me enough to keep him around.
2006-12-10 20:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by yesisaid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to forgive?
my wife didn't confess and still think i'm the one who's wrong.
when i saw my 2 sons, thinking Why they got such Mother!
2006-12-10 19:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could forgive but getting back together would be a no-no... he might do it again.
2006-12-10 20:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by ian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, depends who it was with, i assume. it takes time to gain trust back for that person. but it will alawys be in the bakc on your head is he/she cheating on me still?
2006-12-10 19:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋