2006-12-10 19:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by mercedesinthehouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously she feels he was very special to her, and isn't doing a very good job of concealing her feelings for him. Remember, once you truly love someone you will love them for a lifetime; however not all loves are meant to last a lifetime. If she loves you, you need to feel secure in her love, if she is not in love with you, it would be in your best interest to move on so you can find love and happiness with someone else. A woman's heart is full of secret loves, but once she reveals them to her current relationship she puts a feeling of doubt into her lover's mind, and nothing kills a relationship faster than doubt. Ask her if she has serious feelings for you, and then accept her answer as truth, and the next time she tells you about her past relationships and makes you feel insecure, remind yourself that it is you that she has chosen to remain committed to, and that the past is simply that...the past.
2006-12-10 19:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding the concept "soulmate". Yahooooo... things really are made in heaven!
Yes, every single individual living on Mother Earth has a partner in hiding... a soul mate that would practically match hundred percent with one! This has been a saying by people falling in love now and always. But this is also the truth. God made the destiny of mankind like that.
Suppose I am a boy born at number 43.045230345 (on the scale of hundred) amongst the billions of people living on Mother Earth. Then in all eventualities there would be many girls born at number 43. Whether I get to love and marry the girl of my choice is purely dependent upon my destiny which is a controversial subject (one can always take control of ones destiny if we truly desire so)!
Now, how do I find all girls at number 43...? This is where we falter... the numbering system of God being hidden from mankind... it becomes difficult to find the soul mate matching our choice and results in divorces, the divorce rate being abnormally high.
In the present materialistic trend one weighs the other from his finances, the bank balance, looks and alike. In the domain of God if we really want to search our soul mate... it may be hidden in the ugly frog for God may have cast a spell on it and unable to recognize one we marry the wrong girl! This is the irony of fate of most people the world over.
Those who can hear the sweet small voice coming from their heart... the voice of our soul (atman in Hinduism) such truthful people sometimes are able to recognize their soul mate. And it is then we learn that a Mira Bai has been born. Mira Bai was a faithful follower and lover of Lord Krishna even though Lord Krishna was married and had a wife.
The love of Mira Bai for Lord Krishna was unparalleled. It was much above the physical inhibitions expressed nowadays. For Mira Bai... sex had no role to play in the love she had for Lord Krishna. This is what pure love is all about! More on soul mate here- http://www.godrealized.org/truce_with_my_inner_self.html
2006-12-11 09:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would dump her a*s. I mean if my husband told me that his ex was his soul mate I would whatever I could to not interfer with destiny. But I be damned if I would be waiting for him to return when it blew up in his face AGAIN!!!!
Hello EX is the key word here you need to move on dear. You are taking time away from someone that can really love you and not just someone that is biding her time until she can go back to her ex.
You have to be one of the good guys but don't change us women need the good ones they are a dying breed.
Good Luck
2006-12-11 03:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems she still has the hots for the ex thats why she's always blabbering about him. Tell her to go back to him if she thinks he's her soulmate instead of wasting your time and hurting your feelings. Get a gal who respects u and is completely over her ex. Good luck!
2006-12-11 03:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by su 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes obviously not that into u
loose her coz ur not sole mates
u should try and find a girl who doesnt talk about her ex that is just so low and she has no respect for u mate
dump the *********.
2006-12-11 03:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and find someone worthy of your time and love. Obviously she's not over her ex and probably won't be for a long while if ever.
2006-12-11 03:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she is still in love with her ex
2006-12-11 03:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if he was her soul mate what the hell is she doing with you??
2006-12-11 05:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by hotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a 'kick-in-the-teeth' for you isn't it?
It's a bit like being told,
"Yours is nice, but his was bigger."
"You're sweet, but he was the full honey-pot."
"I'll kiss you goodnight, now I'll be dreaming of him..."
mmm......I don't think she really feels for you the way she should. Otherwise, she'd know that she'd be hurting your feelings.
Tell her what you think.
See what she says.
She may have meant no horrible, nasty, up-yours harm, but I bet it still left you feeling like..."Ok....does that mean I'm special too?"
2006-12-11 03:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her just go back to him and leave me alone. i am not your soul mate.
2006-12-11 03:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by DARK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋