im 17 and im single ... I feel ashamed to admit it but I've never had a girlfriend I feel pathetic . I don't know what to do every time i meet someone i like they don't like me or tell me that they just want to be friends . I have a huge capacity to love but I have problems and stuff that could interfere . I'm very nervous talking to women and have a hard time conveying my feelings . I don't know what to do or how to get a date .
2006-12-10 18:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Lithium89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well actually I find girls really don't like being talked to in that fashion over the internet . Most of the girls I like at least . I Have a problem talking to girls. I have depression anxiety and pdss I handle it well though . I just don't know how to do any of that stuff like I know how to flirt n stuff like that but I can't find anyone .
2006-12-10 18:41:08 · update #1
First of all, why are you ashamed? Don't ever look to other people to validate your worth. Whether you're 17 and had 100 girlfriends or 17 and had no girlfriends, that does not change the fact that you are a person of worth and are probably going to make some lucky girl very happy one day.
We all have issues, by the way. You've mentioned you had some but try not to dwell on those. Accentuate the positive, work on the negative and you'll be fine.
As for love, man or woman,young or old, the harder you try to "make it happen" the longer it takes and the more complicated it becomes.
You're young. Make friends. Have fun. Stop stressing. Love will happen when the time is right ;)
2006-12-10 18:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didnt have a girlfriend until I was 19. Just wait, the right woman will come along. Ive been with my current and only girlfriend since I met her almost three years ago. The right girl will come, but be confident as well.
2006-12-11 02:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you. I am in the same boat as you. I have yet to really discover a way out of this. But what helped me a bit was a dash of confidence. That confidence can go a long way.
2006-12-11 02:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chi78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems you talking about dating with the opposite sex...not to be nervous you should only wear what you are,dont pretend much.this will help you not to get nervous when talking to womens. If your talking with womens dont let them feel boring and also not too confident just natural.
2006-12-11 02:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by aleish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to have confidence in yourself. don't feel ashamed.
2006-12-11 02:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them for their AIM name or email, it's way easier to flirt online
2006-12-11 02:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by painfully_average 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am even some how wondering to date
2006-12-11 02:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋