is she into me or not?

Question

Is she into me or not?
ok so i have a friend that i have known for a while that i have tension w/, althou shes not my type...she feels the same way, but we have never done anything...i like her friend however and i have shown interest in her friend in the past. well her friend came back along in life two yrs later and saw her at my friends place.shes been doing little things that make me wonder...like wanting me to smoke a cig w/ her, goin to see her at work, even her asking me if i was goin to the other chicks place...she asked me that several times...so i said yeah im goin to watch a movie...do u mind? i said it as a joke, but she was like hmmm...yeah and then smiled and then she said no after she did that...am i thinking too much, or is she into me and how can i figure out if shes interested or not w/o just comin up too straightforward?sorry bout the long story,just wanted to give some background

thats the thing...shes usually willing to do stuff w/ me so shes not gonna turn me down, but might i be mislead? b/c she knows alot of guys so i dont know if what she is doing is just like that or if theres an interest behind it

Answer 1

Watch what you say every time you are talking to someone who is potentially "your girl friend"you never know what she is thinking about you. By your question I believe that you are very close, although you both haven't said to each other the words that should ideally confirm for both of you that you could be together as "one".If you have feelings for her go ahead and be brae tell her don't just look at her and think she wants.You may end up in a lot of regrets when she tells you that she has found someone who loves and it's someone else.
Further don't be so naive to think that a girl will come to you to tell youthat she likes you unless you are Tom Cruise but if you are just a normal guy,then you need to get off your butt and tell her how you feel about her, whatever that may be.If you just want to be friends tell her in black and white,if you feel that you want to be your "one and only" well you need to do just that and finlly if you don't totally like her style tell her to the face and move on with your own life.Don't suffer with your feelings inside.It's your right tohave a normal emotional life free from any doubts and worries.All the best my friend.

Answer 2

Maybe shes more worried about being left out, as opposed to being into you. Not that she couldn't be into you but she probably likes being up on the top of the friendship list and the idea of being replaced is NOT appealing. If I were you id just go for the friend, if shes really into you she'll tell you, I'm assuming over a few drinks but it'll happen, right now you've got the perfect excuse, you didn't even know

Answer 3

Dear Wizz

You will never hit the ball, if you don't swing the bat. Ask her out for a cup of coffee or lunch or something that can seen as a friend thing or more. Then you can see from there. Worse than being turned down is NEVER KNOWING AT ALL. Good luck my friend.

Answer 4

I would ask yourself, are you into her or not?

If not, move on, cuz look how much she has already messed with your mind. The right one makes your heart think, and doesn't mess with your mind. Dude, she could cost you a lot of head trips and still be living rent free in your head if you don't move her out of that mind of yours.

Answer 5

She wants you bad!

Answer 6

She is into you man.