I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, he's 23 and im 19. Things were perfectly fine, except for the odd tiff like all couples, He wanted to go overseas and wanted me to come and he was happy to go only for 3-6 mnths. Then on the weekend he goes home to c his parents. He comes back the next day and tells me its over cause his parents arent happy with me, and cause he wants to now travel alone and for a year! The reason his parents don't like me is cause im a quiet person, like i have been my whole life! I was a quiet person when we hooked up so I dont understand how its a problem now! I also dont understand why he talked to them about our problems and not me! He didnt even give us a chance to talk about them. His parents have told him to end i think and I dunno what to do cause I love him soo much. I know im young but I know what I want. My mum was married at 19 and is still with my dad to this day so no one can tell me im too young to know what i want! help!
2006-12-10 18:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well then he isn't the man you are looking for. I know you love him a lot, but if he is gonna listen to his parents to make such a huge decision like this, then he ain't worth it. You want a guy who makes their own decision about love from the heart, because at the end, you always know it was true.
2006-12-10 18:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chi78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because your not meant for each other and seems his love for you is not that strong for now..and there are lots of opportunity waiting for you..your too young..you deserve more than him. And reason for that God has a plan for you and for him.which is better. Dont think much of the break up,as i said your still young...put your attention on your studies,recreational activities this will benefit you and your parents as well...
2006-12-10 18:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by aleish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have told you they said that so you wouldn't be mad at him for breaking up with you. DUMP HIM! Never take him back either. A quiet young lady is better than the loud mouth, really fat thing my older son dated for 2 months. He's 24, do you want him?
2006-12-10 18:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the chump and move on. My 20 year old neice just went through exactly the same thing and now he knows he screwed up but it's too late. She's now having the time of her life as she should.
2006-12-10 18:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same element happened to me. yet you recognize what I did? i found out those human beings weren't my actual acquaintances, and that they weren't properly worth it. I made new acquaintances and that they are alot greater helpful than the different acquaintances I had. i became into 13 while i all started relationship my modern-day boyfriend, and now that is been 2 years and we are nonetheless at the same time. So i understand what your dealing with. My advice is, now you recognize who your actual acquaintances are; carry your head up extreme and discover people who will incredibly care approximately you no rely who your boyfriend is:) good success!!!!
2016-10-18 02:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry,just forget and move on.If he really loved you,he wouldn't dump you.Keep your head high,be proud of yourself.Men will come and go.First of all,you love yourself.Do the best you can in your life.Consent rate on your carrier first.You have a lot of time to get married.Some day some one will love you for who you are.Move on,really.
2006-12-10 18:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is using his parents as a excuse not to date you anymore he just doesn't have a reason for you and wants to move on.
2006-12-10 18:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this girl she is also 19, but I just turned 26 last week, we both are quit types.
2006-12-10 18:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just an excuse honey. By the way, it's ok. u feel bad now, but after u r done with ur sadness, u'll be ok and meet other guys who have backbones :)
2006-12-10 18:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women come and go. You're stuck with your parents. Listen to your parents.
2006-12-10 18:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Wisdom Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋