My friend is a Hindu and he is having an affiar with a muslim Girl for last 8 Years.. They have done remarkable progress in their own carrier fields and hold a great position and since both of their families do also know each other from a long time therefore they are agreed to do the marriage..
Now the Questions arises is this that Marriage can be done with having SPECIAL MARRAIGE ACT 1954. but here families do also want to celebrate this marriage with each of their own rituals.. Like with Nikah & Shaadi.. Since relatives of both the sides need to be treated in great manner for this marriage and therefore it is required that rituals of both the sides should have to be performed at the best level.
Now both of the Boy and Girl is in dlilemma that How to do this so that relatives of both the sides can accept the marriage with open heart.
2006-12-10 18:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by sonia s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK . This a common problem. First thing if they once marry under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 their marriage become legal , but if their parents want a further celebration of their marriage according to their own religous ceremonies let them go ahead who is stoping them. The courts/law recognise their marriage that is being celebrated under the Special Marriage Act,1954 rest is for the general public to enjoy. As a legal person what I can say is tell them to get their marriage first celebrated under the said Act ,get a certificate of this marriage & enjoy, let the parents arrange religious marriage to satisfy their relatives & friends.
2006-12-10 18:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple Muslim Girl
2016-12-18 06:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by tabbitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they want to marry as per Hindu rituals the girl has to first get converted as Hindu in Arya Samaj.For the ritual of Muslim marriage it is necessary that your friend converts as a Muslim. Otherwise the marriage is not valid. Best solution for them is to go for a registered marriage so that both can continue to be what they are. They should both learn to respect each others religions and customs.
2006-12-10 20:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For hindus there is no hard and fast rule for marriage. They only focus on the rituals no matter what releion they are from but for a muslim they want the person to be beliver of islam so what can be done is first do the rituals of hindu marriage and thereafter the boy accept Islam religion then they can do it in islam rituals. No matter latter they follow the reliegion
2006-12-10 18:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by shiju u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely forbidden to be married to nonmuslim husband. Your family should not have married you to him until they were sure that he had already converted. Being a muslim is a belief in the heart that Allah is the only god and Muhammad is his last messenger. And as a proof that a person truly believes in the heart, is that the heart compels the believer to practice the rituals and to uphold the virtues of Islam. So, name changing is irrelevant. Being married to a nonmuslim husband is very dangerous to your belief as you will gradually start letting go of practicing Islam which indicates letting go of believing in Islam in the heart. Basically, it is like when your parents tell you not to accompany bad friends because they are bad influence on you. You must seek counseling with an Islamic scholar. Because you have put your faith in dangerous situation and you may ought to seek divorce. I am sorry that you a have to hear this harsh truth. But I am concerned about your salvation. You can read and research for yourself. You will have a better understanding and courage to face the truth.
2016-03-29 02:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a marriage certificate and later celebrate with the family and friends.
2006-12-10 20:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a civil marriage followed by traditional reception at both homes respectively with their own traditions.
2006-12-10 21:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Court marriage followed by lavish reception separately or combined ( as per the choice) to the friends and relatives of both the sides.
as far as acceptance is concerned, some people will always have problems however hard you try to please them............so don't go beyond yourself to please them. Acceptance in most of the cases comes with time.
Also miya-bibi raazi, why bother about kaazi!!!
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2006-12-13 14:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a civil marriage instead of religious? That's what I did.
2006-12-10 18:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Just trying to help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋