What should you, when you find yourself wondering about an ex? Thinking about that journey and why didn't the two of you try harder to make it work! Now, your assessing what was! What would you do to get over this hurdle? By the way, the break was mutual and it took place about a 3 months ago.
2006-12-10 18:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For what its worth I think its part of normal grieving to remember the "good times" and wonder if things could have worked out differently. However, I think that there is a reason that the two of you are now "exes". Its easy to forget the stuff that got you here. Dig a little deeper and maybe you will find that you are not so compatible after all, move on and learn from the relationship. Good luck to you in the future =).
2006-12-10 19:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by jordan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is an awesome question. I am wondering the same thing. It was mutual break up as well about 9 months ago and all of sudden hes back in my life and I find myself always wondering what if. I am trying to just not speak about our past to anyone and keep it a very distant friendship to keep things easy between us.
Hope this helps us both.
2006-12-10 19:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by kort 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We human being like to ask the questions if, so this is actually a lesson to be learned. Never regret the decision you have made. Time to move on.
I ended a 7 years relationship many years ago, its tough BUT you need to have great determination, do something different i.e. have a make over, try different styles, take up a new hobby, go out and hang out with friends meet new ppl or do charity work.
Before you knew it you would have forgive and forget.
Good luck.
2006-12-10 19:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep wondering. The fact is you both didn't try harder so it obviously wasn't worth it. It's a normal thing to wonder what could have been, but you will never know even if you start back w/him because that part of your life ended and if it starts again it will be a different thing all together
2006-12-10 19:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hm... well, it takes two to make things work. Do you think he is also thinking on the same lines? I do believe that if it's meant to be, things will fall back together. But the important thing is, to be true to your heart. Love doesn't involve hide n seek, or pride/ego issues. Be true to yourself, and let the cookie crumble where it may.
2006-12-10 19:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah yeah i replaced into thinking in simple terms previously when I replied that question appropriate to the 1st time you fell in love... final I heard she replaced into getting her existence back mutually after stuffing each little thing up, doing slightly transport element or something and perhaps going distant places.... I do ask your self, no longer adequate to ascertain nevertheless. I continuously wish her all the final, i do no longer carry grudges... xx
2016-10-05 04:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and analyze it--learn from it and get over it. It is very healthy what you are doing. It does help to get past it.
2006-12-10 19:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I journal. Sometimes, I go back and look thru my journal and say "What was I thinking that we could ever work?!"
2006-12-10 19:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋