Can man be shy with girls they love?

Question

My lover (we are not together at present b/c i am away at college) says he loves me and thinks we will end up together and tells me he misses me when i am in town. why then does he not call me for two weeks? im scared to call but dont know why...i get nervous b/c i still love him. should i call? do men get shy to call the girl they love wholeheartedly?

Answer 1

Yes, you should call him. Talk to him about the lack of calling and how it makes you feel. Sometimes, the men don't know whether it is ok to call, or when to call. So talk to your bf about it, you will feel much better.

Answer 2

Why dont you give him a call back? Are you in love with him or not?. Maybe he doesnt call you as there is no respond from you.

Yes men can be shy with a girl they love, usually at the early stage of the relationship as both are still exploring eaxh other and alot of things you guys are experiencing are new i.e. holding hands, kissing, wearing a bikini onfront of him and etc.

BUT in your case sounds weird if a guys who really luvs you dont call you for 2 weeks. Suggest you give him a call fast.

Answer 3

Yes.

I am a 34 year old man and i still get embarrassed about calling my wife when she's away particularly since i have nothing much to say except that i wanted to hear her voice.

Fortunately I can now send her text messages that she can read when she's no longer very busy. (Many of my old, old messages are even now saved in her mobile phone)

Unfortunately in your case two weeks is quite a suspiciously long time (unless you're in Kathmandu and he's in Timbuktu and a phone call would cost two arms and two legs).

Once in a while, it does wonderful things to a man's ego if a girl calls even if it's just to say hello. Just don't overdo it.

Answer 4

yes of course but there could be other reasons i mean come on hes a guy sweeite he may have some girl pal right now or just really loves u but i doubt u can love so much to not call haha thats not accurate haha soemthigns up n u might as well call n see whats up

Answer 5

i don't think his shy at all what i think is that he found someone else to call and spend his time with if he was shy you would have know by now his not shy his playing you when you love someone you lose all control of your self that s why its called love ppl kill over true love if this is true love i know you don't think that a phone or being shy is going to keep him from hearing your voice, no his not shy he found someone else get out of it his going to be calling you to end it real soon

Answer 6

Of couse he tells you that he loves you when he's in town. Why wouldn't he if he's getting "some"? Honey if he's not calling you and its been two weeks I think he loving or doing somebody else behind your back. If you want some answers...call him and ask him whats going on.

Answer 7

Please listen to me.. I had a long distance relationship.,. and my guy rarely called me.. so I just had a guy on the side while I was at college.. here are the benefits:

1- You get more fulfilled
2- You don't get all whiny and needy.. and you're confident when he calls.
3- You get revenge on him for not calling and being an inconsiderate jerk.

Answer 8

Yes they do. My boyfriend ADMITTED it! I was so proud of him and thought it was cute that I make him shy/nervous :-) It even made me forgive his NEVER CALLING ME! But I did tell him not to let it happen again ;-)

Answer 9

no. if you truly love someone, then you will want to call them all the time. shyness... not with someone you say you love!

he is away at college? i would say he is moving on with his life. do yourself a favor and do the same!

Answer 10

give him a phone call .... just remind him...