we have been going out for 3 years and its been 3 weeks since we last did it, and hes been too tired lately from work. What do I do and am i right to be wrong?
2006-12-10 18:54:02 · 11 answers · asked by abella_03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes only 22 and I gave him massages the past two nights with a lil extra .. but its like im sexually frustrated and I tell him how i feel and he says hes tired and I need to realize how hard he works.. I do understand that its just hard for me to be more sexual than he is and not get none for almost a month?
2006-12-10 19:20:34 · update #1
Is he working a lot of hours? If he's been putting in 12 hour days and 7 day weeks for the last 3 weeks, he's probably too tired for sex (or much of anything else) - maybe when he goes on vacation he can take care of you! Don't take it personally - look at it this way, he's out there working hard for you - what better way to show you how much he loves you?
2006-12-10 18:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, hes already finished doing the interest by using the time you get there it feels like, so hes not waiting or he's purely not interior the temper anymore, that's super extraordinary, any guy might bounce on the reality that his woman confirmed up with not something below her coat ( a trick i plan to apply interior the destiny lol) the two he won't be all that fascinated in you or hes seeing somebody else ( i understand as painful as that sounds) some human beings can cover it astonishing...it seems such as you adore him and prefer to verify what you're able to do to alter this, i think of you could tell him precisely the variety you experience and doubtless youll see some progression or differences in his habit terrific desires to you and that i choose i ought to grant you greater solutions!
2016-10-18 02:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are wrong to be upset if he's too tired to do it. If he's so tired, maybe you could excite him by giving him a massage. If I was feeling tired and beaten down, I would want a massage and a lot of cuddling. Oh yeah, and some good food would probably be helpful too. All that stress isn't doing his body any good, so he could really appreciate you helping him out. Be patient. Maybe you should try to encourage him to take a different job or something if things don't look like they will improve otherwise. Good luck!
2006-12-10 19:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not at all wrong to be upset. I found myself in a similar situation a while back. Then when he eventually wanted to i told him that i was tired and pretended to be asleep. It went on for about another two weeks.(About 2 months in total without any sex)(I thought I was going to go crazy) After some tequilas we had a huge argument were he finally just grabbed me and we had the most passionate sex in a long time. Just be honest with him, tell him how you are feeling.
2006-12-11 01:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by babyface 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 trains of thought here
1. he is tired and doesnt want sex and there will come a day when you are tired and he wants sex but u don't. So really in that case you should give him a break.( i work 12 hour night shifts bu ti still want it when i get in)
2. he has been unfaithful and has contracted an STI from a 3rd party and doesnt want to give it to you.
either way if you still havent got what you want in say a week then confront him to find out what the real problem is.
2006-12-10 21:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by seamanspraying 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With him no older than that you might consider taking him to a physician ,,,, This isn't a normal condition and it could be a symptom of something else that could lead to a more serious problem or problems ,,,, He probably doesn't realize that there just might be something wrong either and believes what he's been telling you to be the case ,,,, At any rate it wouldn't hurt to have him checked out ,,,,
2006-12-10 21:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he cheating? Is there a problem at work? Has he been working long hours? Has he been sick or taking new medications? Try to seduce him one night. Offer to take a shower with him, wear that sexy outfit he likes or get a new one. Go for it.
2006-12-10 18:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you ever get tired yourself. You should understand him before you make any conclusion of why he doesn't do it. It might be genuine complains
2006-12-10 19:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only if he is over 45 yrs old.. then he can be too tired...
2006-12-10 18:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its not wrong to get upset...but u should talk to him abt it.
2006-12-10 19:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋