I saw this hot guy at the gym for few times and we had eye contacts, he came up to me & introduced himself but we never talked to each other alot. I really like this guy. The next time he saw me at the gym and offered me a ride to home but I had my own car. A week after I saw him & decided to give him my number and told him to hang out sometime if he likes to & he seemed interested & told me he's gonna give me a call. It's been 3 days by now and I have not received any call from him. Would it be better if I waited for him to give me his number or it doesn't really matter. If I see him at the gym again I won't say why he has not call me yet. Besides, how do I know is he's interested enough in me to give me a call !
Any good suggestion to take a better step??
2006-12-10 18:59:31 · 10 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... i think that it would have been better if you didn't give your number to him coz he can say that you are not hard to get, and most people (boys) love gils which are hard to get...
dont be angry to him that he didn't call you... stay the same...
2006-12-10 19:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by tapakani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance, I suspect he making you stew a little, its cruel but not unexpected really. did you notice any rings on his fingers? cause he might be married. if you dont hear from him within the next few days just move on hes not worth it. He could be holding your number back incase, I dont know, maybe his present G/f throws him out or hes been out drinking.
If you see him at the gym, if hes serious about you he should come up to you and explain why he didnt call, although if he says anything along the lines of "Sorry Ive been really busy at work" or "I havent had enough credit on my mobile to call you" then be extremely suspicious, and try to avoid him or ask him for his number so you could call him.
2006-12-11 03:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by asislife2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think that maby u shouldnt have given him ur number so soon u no coz now he nows ur interested and he mite not feel that urge to try and get u since he nos he can have u now that hes got ur number and he nos that ur waiting to here from him so he doesnt want to call u any more
i recon just kep going to the gym and just have conversations with him n be friends u no dont let him no that u want him to call u or he wont
2006-12-11 03:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me,i think its not good to ask him why he didn't call you,coz your not still friend and didn't know you yet and even you ...first you have to make friends to him but not like flirting with him (no offense)if you see him at gym again just give him a smile.start it with friendly talk as a gym mate...
2006-12-11 03:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by aleish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he went out of town. Go up to him in a coy and shy way, and ask him"to you loose things, like my phone number" be care fully he could think that you are over eager for him and may get the wrong idea. He may think that you are easy so be carefull.
2006-12-11 03:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy was truly interested, he would have called you by now. Don't pursue him too aggressively because you will seem desperate and that will give him too much power. Also, if you do appear desperate, he will not respect you.
2006-12-11 07:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by roy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the course take it place if he want you he will call you.
2006-12-11 03:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt really matter who is first or second please just follow your heart and get whatever u feel belongs to you avoiding complex.
2006-12-11 03:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by aschelock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will call you today
2006-12-11 03:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read " He's just not that into you "
2006-12-11 03:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋