so my bestfriend n i hv been best frns since we were 3 n nw i like her more than a friend bt she has a boyfriend who is also my bestfriend....please help me??ii always say 2 tell the thing in ur heart nw i kno hw tough it is....
2006-12-10 19:03:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly your in a very tough position. I could only tell you what I think I would do.
I would try and stay away, I would start spending less and less time with them. I don't know how serious is there relationship or how old all of you are but I do think it's best you start staying away little by little it will not be that difficult because you are making the choice and nobody is making it for you.
Cu's if you would try something your risking both of them not talking to you and that won't be in good terms it's best that you do it because your choosing too and in good terms and then if they approach you about why your staying away be honest tell them the truth tell them you really care for them as friends but that you have developed feelings for her and you rather back off and keep the friendship but from a little distance then mess everything up.
I think this way if it doesn't work out between them you can still keep them as friends and if it does work out the same you still have them as friends mean while try to meet other girls let them do there thing and if she's really meant to be for you maybe in the future something will put you guys together.
Hope it helps but that's from my heart.
2006-12-10 19:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by calimexgirl!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew her since you were 3 it means you were not interested in her not until she got hooked up with your best friend. Leave them alone otherwise you will end up loosing both.
2006-12-11 03:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything until your best friend and her break up or you will lose more than you would be willing to...
Just wait. And when the time comes, tell her.
Best of luck :-)
2006-12-11 03:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of best friend would you be to your best friend if you moved in on his girl, (your other best friend since 3) ? I think ya might wanna move on and find your own girl and keep the 2 best friend's ya have.
2006-12-11 03:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, if you say anything it will become weird to hang out with them. Just try and find someone else.
2006-12-11 03:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to both parties about the situation. Then take it from there on your decision.
2006-12-11 03:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't u dare move in boss! and don't fire me, lol. wait, if they break up b there for her show her that u care but don't move in immeidaintly. If he's the wrong guy, u have proof and u know it. tell.
2006-12-11 03:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're best friends,you talk easily just run it past her how she feels about your friendship and then tell her how you feel.Goodluck...
2006-12-11 03:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think..u should keep a distance from them from now on..to avoid any misunderstanding or complicatons that might come about....seriously...
2006-12-11 03:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck
2006-12-11 03:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by passion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋