Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

It seems when a man isn't getting the attention he wants at home, society justifies his "wandering". When a woman isn't getting the attention she wants at home, society says she should "fix it or deal with it". How come men aren't held to that same standard?

Serious thoughtful answers please, jerk-faces will be reported.

2006-12-08 03:14:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 03:13:56 · 21 answers · asked by gdawg1 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't have alot of money to spend, but like everyone I want my first wedding to be elegant and perfect, but with out breaking the bank!!
Any suggestions!?

2006-12-08 03:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by sk8erchica15 2 in Weddings

She spend a lot of time working. She will not go on blind dates. She is 31 and will not she breaks up with alll the good ones.

2006-12-08 03:13:23 · 4 answers · asked by francesgjoyner 1 in Singles & Dating

if her husband loves her but also he loves to his ex wife

2006-12-08 03:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Here's the song
http://www.listentocharlie.com/music.html track11

2006-12-08 03:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Black Atheist 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex was still in love with me when he left me bacause i was pregnant and couldnt go through with an abortion, now he says that even though he still has feelings for me he doesnt love me anymore. I can't help but think his anger and confusion at becoming a father is causing him to make a mistake. He is still always hugging me, pulling me close to him and when i returned from holiday he kept telling me how much he'd missed me. does he still love me? if not is it possible that he could some day? is it possible that when the baby is born he might want me back?

2006-12-08 03:12:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My BF and I have had marriage talk but then I wonder how we would get married. He is Buddhist and I was raised Catholic, but I have Buddhist beliefs. I would like something small and traditional. Only reason I would want to get married through the catholic church is for respect to my father and rest of the family. But at the same time this wedding is supposed to make my BF and i happy. So I was just wondering what you alll thought and if youve been to a buddhist wedding how was it??

Heres the other thing, we are both mexican and would like to have mariachis at the reception, would that be a total clash with a buddhist wedding??

2006-12-08 03:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by BuNNY 2 in Weddings

2006-12-08 03:11:42 · 19 answers · asked by mitsy906 1 in Singles & Dating

My son has probably had over 30 jobs in his life and wants to get ahead but just seems to be dead ended. Now he wants to come live with us and bring his family along. I'm 63 years old and at the end of what life I have-what do I do? I can afford to have him stay with us but I want my peace and quite and not distruption at this stage of my life. Any good answers-

2006-12-08 03:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by jon l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone always has had moments in their lives where they wanted someone they couldn't have. So, today my friends, I pose this question:

Would you take the opportunity to be with the one person you have always wanted, even if it was a one night thing? Or would you want 'all or nothing'?

2006-12-08 03:10:17 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together 2 yrs. we have been living together for one year and we have a 6month old baby. it started when i moved in i would try to initiate sex and he was always "too tired". i thought it was because i was pregnant but then i had the baby and in a matter of weeks i went right back to shape im told all the time that it doesnt even look like i had a baby... so i dont understand i fix myself up i try to be spontaneous im up for anything he wants and the answers always no. the most we do it is every 2 weeks, once!!! im going crazy... im like the guy in the relationship i feel like a horn dog??? whats wrong here???

2006-12-08 03:09:29 · 22 answers · asked by desi 1 in Singles & Dating

she has blonde hair,blue eyes,likes softball and like kassey kane (the nascar racer)

2006-12-08 03:09:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-08 03:08:24 · 50 answers · asked by BUCANE 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother has just broken up with his girlfriend and she is 2 monthes and some days pregnant. My mom thinks that it is wrong and that she hopes that he doesn't turrn out like our father who was never around. She said that now it was not about him or his girl friend, it was about the baby........ But i need someone to give me some words of advice for him cause i don't want him to make a big mistake..

2006-12-08 03:08:13 · 20 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Singles & Dating

First, she only dates differrent weird guys, instead of normal sane guys. Second, when she goes out with a guy she dosen't like sahe will pay for the dinner. That is sooooo bad for her image. Agreed?

2006-12-08 03:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by francesgjoyner 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is a very difficult, angry, controlling person and it is especially hard for me this time of year because I am the only one of the 4 children that live near her. She has never loved her kids or grandkids and everyone expects me to entertain her at Christmas but it is so stressful for me that I keep falling back into a deep depression. She sits around feeling sorry for herself all the time. I invited her for dinner at Christmas Eve but then she goes and tells my sister that she spends the holidays alone every year. She was at my house last year for Christmas!
She constantly picks at everything I do and she tells me my house stinks and says hurtful things. She was at my house last year for Christmas! The closer I get to Christmas the more stressed I get. I really don't want her at my house because I will have a very difficult time looking at her without anger.

2006-12-08 03:07:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My son is making me a grandmother and I am so upset. Everybody tells me that once the baby comes that I will feel different but I say that I want feel different. I feel so old right now. I am not happy about it no matter what people tell me. I just cant see myself being called a grandmother. I know that I am going to be one no matter what but it is still so hard to accept. Can anybody see my point. I want to be a grandmother one day but not right now. I have a ten year old son so I dont feel like a grandmother. At this time you are suppose to feel so proud. I havent even told anybody except my best friend.I guess I am in denial and I am not ready to acknowledge it. My friend made the mistake of calling me grandma and I almost lost it. Am I wrong for acting like this. I pray with time that those feelings will go away. I do want to love my first grandchild. Help!!!

2006-12-08 03:07:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

did you like it? hate it?
cant wait to do it again? why?
never doing it again?

2006-12-08 03:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where is the site that has them?

2006-12-08 03:05:46 · 12 answers · asked by BIG DICK 69 3 in Singles & Dating

I looked at my boyfriend phone it went off last night about 11:oo and this morning i was giving it to him letting him know he missed a call last night and he got mad talking about i;m looking through his phone and i'm like i wasn;t but i should and noticed that i's alot of new numbers but he also is a cab driver and he just told me that he wants to marry me a couple days ago so whats the promblem if i was looking im your phone . That;s not necessary i think guys talk to me.

2006-12-08 03:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by shnnn_ivey 2 in Singles & Dating

Look people. Before i even start, just know that i dont care what comments you make about me. I will only laugh at rude ones.
Almost every woman has allowed at least one man to screw them over before. For example, count up the number of women you know have been beaten, cheated on, and manipulated. How many of those women still said that they loved their partner regardless of the mistreatment? Im sure nearly all of them said that. Thats because women as a whole are gullible and clueless.
I have been with many women. And while with them, ive come to the conclusion that women WANT WHAT THEY DONT WANT. By this i mean that women will often go against what comes out of their mouth. So if a woman tells you she wants a guy thats sensitive, she really wants a guy that will slap her around a few times. Men, i have found that women often times respond more quickly when you push them around. They will only love you more when you do that. Stupid, huh?
Feel Free to IM me if you wish to debate

2006-12-08 03:04:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can I do, my spouse will not talk to me and when I ask what is wrong he wont tell me? He rather make smart remarks than talk to me. Part of the problem is he wants to swing and I am hesitate do to I dont think it is for us, I think it is for him. Reason I think this is because we havent done anything or found anyone to do anything with so he gets all pissy and wont talk and makes slide remarks about it. He constantly has remarks about swinging constantly. I dont have time to sit around on the computer looking at ads so that makes him mad. How can something be about us when he acts like a child if I dont make it happen for him. He doesnt know I have called about a New Years Eve Party because if I do tell him, he will talk it to death.

Also, Christmas is here and he is always an ***. Our families are coming and that is great but I dont want to have this feeling up to the minute they get there. Please help me. Should I just ignore him or try to talk or just take the crap!

2006-12-08 03:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by If we don’t stand up for ourselves, NO ONE will 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's overweight but not a slob or ugly. More like a football linebacker.
He goes to community college but people there don't hang out after class.

2006-12-08 03:02:29 · 31 answers · asked by drhowarddrfine 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that every single girl had a little secret which they conceal to their partner?

2006-12-08 03:02:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it okay to still be in love with the person?

2006-12-08 03:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by bossygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 03:02:07 · 5 answers · asked by Sean E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter was my life. She is now 16 and lives with her father. Her best friend told me she was doing drugs. So I court ordered a drug test. She passed the test but now hates me. She said that she never wanted to see me again that she hated me. This is killing me. How do I move on with my life and except the fact that my daughter hates me. This has alot to do with her father also. She has chosen him over me because of money. I divorced her father because he was a abuser and cheater I couldn't take it anymore. I feel like he is still winning and Im a loser. What do I do?

2006-12-08 03:01:38 · 28 answers · asked by theresa kay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 03:01:22 · 14 answers · asked by cncrned 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well today i came to school and i said hi to my friend
and she didnt say anything and then i was with my other friend and
she said hi to my friend who didnt say anything to me and then when my friend said hi to her. my friend who didnt say anything said hi to her and not me

2006-12-08 03:01:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends