Everyone always has had moments in their lives where they wanted someone they couldn't have. So, today my friends, I pose this question:
Would you take the opportunity to be with the one person you have always wanted, even if it was a one night thing? Or would you want 'all or nothing'?
2006-12-08 03:10:17 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure, I'd go for it.
2006-12-08 03:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All or nothing is my opinion,give yourself value a woman that makes herself to easy is a woman a man will use and your far better than that.Anyway good luck, gosh I can't believe in some of the answers no woman should just give herself for a one night stand thats so degradeing, even me being a man I wouldnt ever lay with a girl unless i thought there might be a future here, if i thought oh this is just a one time thing I would pass, I have enough respect for myself and the girl than to do that.
2006-12-08 11:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by albert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Few times I did and now in retrospect I regert it like you can't imagine. These one night stands are worth nothing.
Believe me that the respect that you'll have for yourself if you DON'T do it will way outweigh the satisfaction from a one night stand. And most of the times you don't even have physical satisfaction but a great disappointment; and then the pain is even greater. You lost self-respect and didn't get what you were hoping for from this "adventure".
I wish you could learn from my mistakes. I always thought that after this one night stand he'll see me in a different light and will fall inlove with me. It's nonsense.
When you wake up after these one night stands you feel so dirty that you want to spend hours in the shower. Unfortunately, it's kind of dirt that doesn't come off that easy.
PLEASE, don't do it.
2006-12-08 11:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by TATAAAAAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take the one night thing! If it's just for one night, then at least I'd have one night of knowing, feeling, touching, sharing! Applying the old adage, "Better to have loved and lost....then to never have loved at all." Of course I would still want it all and having the one night is my chance to show the other person just what they're missing. Could possibly tip the pendulum in my favor! Go for it and make the best out of it! Nothing ventured....nothing gained!
2006-12-08 11:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by flsuave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh tough question. In the past I would have said absolutely go for it. But you know, I'm getting old now, I'm not so sure. A one night stand wouldn't bother me too much, but it sort of feels like, what's the point, you might as well do it with your regular partner and imagine, much less stressful in the long run.
2006-12-08 11:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All or nothing. Even if you have wanted this for so long, if it is only for one night, it isn't worth it. Have some dignity. Some self-respect. This person clearly does not feel the same way, so it is not meant to be. Unless you're having sex purely for the pleasure, then no...
2006-12-08 11:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you have to take into consideration as to the person that you pick, will they want to be with you for the one night or are you making them do something against their will. With that being said, I would love one night with my first love, just to treat him the way he treated me on the night he broke my heart.
2006-12-08 11:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for it u live once and who knows theres a tiny chance that something might last longer than one night and if not there are memories for u to hold onto at least!!!GO FOR IT GIRL!!
2006-12-08 11:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt want to ruin my ....picture i guess u could say of that i imagine it would be like..and especially for a one night stand. i mean u know they dont want u. so why would u want to ruin the image u have created in ur head ..for something that wouldnt turn out good. and then there is the factor of the one ur with. why risk that for a one night stand that will only be for nothing. i wouldnt take that chance. I wouldnt want to hurt myself or the man i am with for that. he is a good man and he does want me and love me.
2006-12-08 11:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess if it was someone I'd always wanted and I had the chance to be with them I would....no matter how long it lasted.
2006-12-08 11:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not take the chance. It is better to keep it as a dream of what it could be like, rather than experiencing it and be disappointed....
2006-12-08 11:13:31 · answer #11 · answered by bettan74 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋