how can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating?

Answer 1

Sorry but if you have to ask that question, He is! Good luck.

Answer 2

With being an EX-Player, I can tell you things to look for.

Don't go way overboard if signs are small, but if they seem very disturbing, then think long and hard about it.

Does he seem distant? Does he seem that he is on the phone or computer alot more than spending time with you? Does he have friends over alot more than usually? Does he say he's going to the store and he's gone for long periods of time? With him in the vicinity, if he has a cell phone, pick it up and act like your looking at it, any weird names or numbers you don't recognize? And also, as long as he sees you pick up his cell phone, if he copes an attitude and/or rips it out of your hands. That should give you a sign of something is not right.

With knowing what I did and hid back in the day, I know alot of how guys act and things they say to avoid getting caught or busted. If you have anymore questions, feel free to e-mail me or msg me yahoo. my nickname on there is Cmptrsdeal, same with AIM and MSN. Take care and good luck!

Answer 3

If you feel he is....he probably is! Go with your gut.

Is he acting differently toward u? Treating you worse/better? More interested in his appearence? Buying new clothes more often?
Less or more interested in sex? Sometimes guys messing around will pay u extra attention thinking u wont get suspicious. Does he disappear for periods of time ...unaccountable? not answer his cell ? Hide his cell and bill?Seem to be going out with the guys more?Come home smelling differently?
All could be signs! Your best weapon is communication and openess. Dont jump to any conclusions withoput due consideration.

Answer 4

if you asked then he is. It is a womens gift to natrually know when a man is being unfaithful. a woman always know. Do yourself a favor and decided your action plan and carry it out. If your going to stay, dont breath another word of it EVER AGAIN. If you decide to leave, then leave with class, no drama, just with your head up because you'll realize you deserve so much more. Some women beg, cry, scream, yell, kick, and then stay. whatever you do just dont be pathetic.

Answer 5

dont listen to people who say he is cheating just bc you asked this question you may just be paranoid , does he stay gone for hours and hours and says things like i was just hangin out with my buddies cause 12 hours is way too long to just be hangin out does he get mad when you ask? does he keep his cell turned off when hes with you ask him sometime if you can borrow cell phone for a few minutes and check it out. but you may just be paranoid usually there are some really good signs that you wiill notice if he is youll know

Answer 6

Doesn't spend time with you...or at least how he used to when you first met.
Acts suspicious.
Is always saying he is busy and can't do this or that.

You would know...its not always obvious...
But if he is cheating you will sooner or later find out...

Good luck!!!

Answer 7

If he is cheating you'll find out about it. Just the fact that you are suspecting it probably means that he is doing it!!

Answer 8

Hire a pi (private eye) or do sluething yourself check his cell phone for chiks numbers in recent calls check emails follow him whatever it takes!!

Answer 9

if he has changed teh way that he acts... pay attention to detail.. and ASK... see how he responds... you should be able to tell just by doing all that... unless he is a great liar.... then it will be tough.. and you will have to do a little detective work.. but be careful!!!

good luck

Answer 10

When you find out the answer to this Id certainly like to know as well!

Answer 11

If you think he is, chances are...he is. Often they'll accuse you of cheating if they are, because they feel guilty.