Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

I was talking with this guy occasionally, and told him that I'm not into that whole cy ber thing....for a while he was cool, and we just talked. A few days ago, he was trying to "go there" and I reminded him several times that he was not talking to one of "those" friends and "it's me....remember?" He said he did remember me, and kept on with it. Finally, I had to tell him off, but am wondering what posessed him to do this? I told him the first time we chatted, that I am a flirt, but keep it pretty clean....and that I don't do that, and that it would not hurt my feelings any if he didn't want to talk to me anymore, that I understand. He was cool, up until that point. what's up?

2006-12-08 02:32:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why can't a woman be a woman and come face to face with someone and talk problems out instead of going on as if they are mighty than anybody else. wanting to fight and all that where is that going to put them i personally think it lower are kills your self esteem. why women stoop to these levels why?

2006-12-08 02:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by shelo 1 in Singles & Dating

I sent him a voice message to end our relationship and he has not called!! I know have done the right thing but why does it hurt so bad I really want to call him and just chat not to get back together to end it amicably I had driven to his place at 5am this morning to speak to him that the relationship was not working for me as I never see him and the few near misses he always has a story and last night was one of them. I am so scared to be alone and I have since called all my ex 's to try and find some kind of comfort and luckily none of them picked up so I am really left with nothing else but calling him. I miss him so much that I feel a hole in my stomoch which no amount of food can feel. I still live him very much but I do not think he loves me or he ever loved me for that matter!!

2006-12-08 02:32:30 · 19 answers · asked by Khensani 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be husband is mad at me and I don't know why I've asked him twice and he says nothing is wrong but my instincts tell me other wise. Is it just my nerves trying to interfear? Sometimes what he says to me makes me want to just cry, it's rude and crude. Why is he so mooddy? Is it he's just nervous to? The wedding is in five weeks, is he just actting like a normal bacholor soon to be married? He's happy as long as we're going over the plans. Why is he acting this way!?

2006-12-08 02:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by lill_angel_07_88 3 in Weddings

Well I am all cried out. What do I do now?

2006-12-08 02:29:50 · 21 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend, went to a guidence cousnlor about two of our good friends who are cutting themselves, and one of which was Over dosing.. We've both seen the cuts. The two of them were called to the guidemce office, and were told that two sophmore girls told him about the cutting(were the only two who know). So they somehow covered them up, and said we were lying, and that they never said anything, even though I have proof on my cell phone. So the guidence counselor told us(me and my best friend) that if we came to him again, with any more lies, or practical jokes about the two boys(cutters) we would be suspened. Is that fair? Can you suspend us for notifying someone of a situation that was incredibly serious?

2006-12-08 02:29:35 · 33 answers · asked by Shelby S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are some ideas of some things that can be included in a coupon book for 3 little girls, ages 10, 8, and 4, for example, 1 coupon good for a movie of their choice...etc. Please send your ideas, thanks :)

2006-12-08 02:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

about lesbians, and why?

2006-12-08 02:28:10 · 18 answers · asked by short 2 in Singles & Dating

Mum and dad are happy and have been happily married for 43 years and recently i suspect my dad has started having an affair with a neighbour. Do i tell my mum or have a word with my dad or shall i speak to the neighbour.

2006-12-08 02:28:00 · 24 answers · asked by Kenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 12 yrs, I had a one time fling with a woman 4 yrs ago ( oral only ) it was a terrible mistake and I wish I could take it back, it meant nothing and wasnt going to go anwhere. A month ago my wife told me she still loves me but isnt in love with me anymore and wants a divorce. She says she can't forgive me for what I did. She says she still wants me to live in the house to help pay the bills and be there for our 2 kids. She even said we could occassionally have sex. I dont think this would work but she does. How can she expect me to stay there if she doesnt want to be married to me? I have asked her several times to go to counciling and she refuses, saying she doesnt want the councilor to put all the blame on her for my mistake. Does her wanting me to stay and occassionally giving me sex sound like someone that wants a divorce? It is very confusing to me. Right now she is very bitter towards me, but she still wants show affection towards me at times.

2006-12-08 02:27:29 · 16 answers · asked by joefra68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I finally lost my virginity to him, and he became my first true love. I went away to college over 600 miles away, but we managed to make the long-distance relationship work. He eventually moved to where I was living. We dated for 8 years, lived together for 3 of those years, and finally got married. I made the horrible mistake of having an affair a year into our marriage. I don’t know why I did, but I wish I hadn’t! We were struggling financially, and going through a rough patch-so I guess I was questioning our relationship? We got a divorce, & I moved 1.5 hours away. But we still talk regularly and see each other on occasion. We usually end up having sex when we do see each other. We’re both in other relationships. I tell him how I still love him and miss him-he doesn’t say anything. I know I hurt him so bad, but yet he still acts like he still cares for me? Is it just sex to him, or does he still care? Should I try to see if maybe we could work things out, or move on?

2006-12-08 02:26:50 · 18 answers · asked by Lost in Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His Married and separated with 3 kids. His around 38, And he says he needs time to sort himself out, I love him but need him to make more effort although he says he loves me too and I can feel it sometimes and we have a strong connection. I am 25. I dont mind his kids at all and would never take their mothers place. I am totally in love but terrified his not that serious and that He just says he loves me. Please tell me what to do.
We have planned to be just friends and thats it but every time i see him we end up kissing passionately. I wish i could let go or know what to do.

2006-12-08 02:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i do?
It just doesn't seem to crow first thing in the morning any more...i think it must be ill, which is a worry as its the only c0ck i've got and i need to wake up early tomorrow morning to start kicking my balls around....... ready for tomorrow's game..
what shall i do?

2006-12-08 02:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by ReD eYe ReCoRdS 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm just wondering what you think of this-i like this guy and his friend likes me. and the guy that i like is always saying stuff about how me and his friend should save our flirting for after work.and teasing us. would he do this if he (guy that i like) didn't like me?just curious.

2006-12-08 02:26:23 · 7 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

"Never say Never" well i have said that so many times that i would never do what i did again, only to find myself doing exactly that, so do you think there is some truth within that saying?......... now i will never say never again, instead i leave room for possibilty that i will walk that same path again....how many of you have said you would never do something and find yourself doing it, or walking the same path you vowed you would never cross again?......let me know?......

2006-12-08 02:26:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a relationship with a great guy and for a whole year we spent everywaking hour together. When i was in college, i told him of the bad food served, so he went to his grandmothers house and got me a plate of food! He was so sweet, showering me with attention and all that. When one day it cam crashing down and a woman told me that she and him been having a relationship for the same year we were. When confronted he said that he wanted to tell me for the longest time but couldnt. It took forever for me to get over it, so he said that he is glad its out in the open. He said that before he met me he was always playing women. He tells me that he want us to get married and he is ready to settle down with me cause I am the only woman he loved. Well I forgave him (silly huh?) and we have continued on for another year, but in the back of my mind I wondered: if once a cheater always a cheater, will he do it again? I am so scared i cant go back to that pain. and he wants to get married but?

2006-12-08 02:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ma parents were married on 14th Feb 1983, will the Silver Jubilee be this 14 Feb 2007 or the next one? I tried to sort it out ma self but got really confused; am really short hand in maths, please help!!!!! :P

2006-12-08 02:25:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 02:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by REBECCA E 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 02:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by skye m 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in the Navy and will be coming home soon. I want to make New Years really speacial since he won't be here for Christmas. Suggestions???

2006-12-08 02:24:18 · 6 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 02:23:54 · 15 answers · asked by jan 1 in Singles & Dating

some people are dilusional....maybe i am to ?

is there a definitive measure or standard here on yahoo? What are 5 questions we could ask people to determine thier TRUE genuine no kidding hotness that would cut through thier self dilusions ??

2006-12-08 02:23:35 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

ok she called me up scince shes at my aunts house. she isn't dying and she is saying goodbye to me what does she mean by that.

2006-12-08 02:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by narsi_hunter 1 in Family

I don't understand. Wouldn't it be more benificial to all parties involved if you would just show your guy what he's doing wrong and tell him exactly what it's going to take to get you off? If your guy wants a quickie, there is no way in hell that he can ever expect you to orgasm that quickly.... so again, why fake it? Don't all men know that there is WORK involved here to make their women hit the big one? please explain!!

2006-12-08 02:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by tazmanean_devil 2 in Singles & Dating

he was once married and he is scared of loosing me the way he did with the other .but this great attachment scares me badly.cos he does a lot of weird things

2006-12-08 02:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by aschelock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 02:20:37 · 7 answers · asked by anna 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this guy for 12 (YES 12) years...and we slept together a 4 years ago, only once. We went our separate ways for a couple years...both had kids..and now we're back talking again, and spending a lot of time with eachother. We both want it (ya know what I'm talkin about) but for some reason I'm scared to make a move and neither will he. Any suggestions on how to get over this?

2006-12-08 02:19:52 · 24 answers · asked by amiracle27 1 in Singles & Dating

All I hear is "I want a nice guy that will treat me nice", or " I want a bad boy". Ladies which is it? All I see are women who have boyfriends who are assholes who treat them like crap. I'm a nice guy. Which i've been told by a lot of people. I've even tried being an asshole to women and it dosen't work. I guess the question is how does a very shy and nice guy pickup women or at least get their phone numbers?

2006-12-08 02:19:25 · 20 answers · asked by cy 3 in Singles & Dating

What should i do when my boyfriend talks to me so much in class that i get into trouble?

2006-12-08 02:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by blah b 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you handle arrogant people?

I just had a phone call from this dude. He was so aggrogant towards me that I put the phone where I can't hear him. Eventually I heard him put the phone down.

If he was standing next to me I am sure that I would have slapped him.

2006-12-08 02:18:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating