Have a quiet word with your dad.
Explain to him your concerns. This may be difficult, but it should clear everything up.
It could be nothing to worry about, but discussion is the best way to sort out the problem.
Should you find out there is an affair going on, you will need to be strong, and give support to your parents.
2006-12-08 02:46:38
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answered by Dr David 6
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Probably best to tell your mum now, depending on how sure you are. It's possible she's had doubts too and might appreciate knowing that you're on the same wavelength. If she reacts badly as in gets angry with you then you're safe because you're just looking out for her, which she will recognise and be grateful for. Confronting your dad could lead to a very awkward and difficult situation and if he is having an affair, he will get more wary and cover his tracks more. Don't speak to the neighbour about it.
2006-12-08 02:33:13
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answer #2
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answered by mishmash 3
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First be very careful how you do it but have a chat with your dad, ask him if everything is OK as you've been worried by some rumours you have heard. Tell him how much you love him and your mum and you don't want either of them hurt by what is being said. Then wait and see what he says. You'll know if he is lying if he has been faithful all these years he will be feeling a bit of a heel. Good luck I hope it all turns out to be a false worry.
2006-12-08 02:38:15
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answer #3
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answered by Grannygrump 3
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Talk to your Dad first - CALMLY. See what his reaction is and then take it from there. There's always 2 sides to a situation remember - so hear his version of events first before you upset the apple cart by letting your mum know your fears.
Hope it works out
2006-12-08 04:48:32
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Is mom complaining?
Is dad behaving funny?
Are they still happy together?
Has there been any of such issues in the past?
do you think your dad is the promiscuous type?
Have you done your home work well?
Can you prove beyond any shadow of doubt that your dad is having an affair?
are you just speculating?
I suggest you try catching your dad in the act
If you cant, then forget about it
EXCEPT
If you want to breed tension in their home and or break your parents marriage.
Be careful.
2006-12-08 02:45:01
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answer #5
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answered by lace 2
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That's a hard one. I would probably say something because in this day and age STDs are rampant. My mother got one from my father after a separation ended in a reconcilation because he had unprotected sex with another woman during the separation and then passed it along to my mother after they reconciled. "But she was a nice woman!" my father insisted. Sheesh. So, given that personal experience, I would probably be unable to keep quiet.
Here are some options:
If you tell your mother, she might:
-not believe you and blame you for bringing it up.
-believe you and blame you for bringing it up.
-have already known and be choosing to ignore it and blame you for bringing it up.
-believe you and be glad you told her.
Since 3 of those 4 options are not positive ones, I would probably approach your father and say something like this, "The way you're acting with our neighbor, it seems like you're having an affair with her, so you might want to cool it. I can't believe Mum would be too happy if everyone in the neighborhood is gossiping about you two." That way you're not accusing him of anything, but you're giving him a warning.
2006-12-08 02:37:26
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answered by Karen L 3
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PLZ dnt say to ur mom...
U JUST SUSPECT & u r still not sure...
1st case:
If u came to know that it is not true..& u have already told to your mom ....May be your relation between your parents maybe looosed!!!
Advice:
So,If u r not sure about it..Keep your mouth shut!!!
2nd case:
If u talk to ur dad,
Also ur relation only with ur dad will be loosed..
& later when ur mom knowz about it...u know whatz next!!
3rd case:
If itz false & u had already talked to ur neighbour...Your neighbour will have bad imppression on you!!!!
In all the cases above,
IF the matter is totallly opposite.....
Im sorrry to be helpless....
BUT.........................
My answer is:
It will be better for you to keeep quiet till you know the whole story........
& if itz right i prefer you talking to your dad first ...
so that he comes back to your old dad...
But if that doesnt happen...
Talk to your mom as fast as possible!!!!
Wish ur mom & dad live happily for thousandz of yearz....
With hopes of love & success,
H@lf (\/)()()[)
2006-12-08 02:40:12
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answered by Choclate thunder 2
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May be just leave it be. I mean unless you have some serious proof. At the moment you only suspect something is going on. You would probably end up upsetting someone by going behind their backs and talking about it. If it's nothing you may end up causing problems.
2006-12-08 02:33:41
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answered by itgirl23 3
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its nothing to do with you, try and mind your own business. i know its hard but, at the end of the day - nothing could be goin on.
if you mention something on the off chance your going to cause problems between your mother and father.
have a word with your dad, and mention it. dont start screaming at him and calling him all sorts....
its what you suspect, not actually a fact!
2006-12-08 02:31:41
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answer #9
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answered by geminially 2
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well if you suspect that your dad is having an affair then i think you might want sneak around and find out for yourself and see if what you thinking is true and if some things that you assume are happining then i think thats when you need to let your mom what you found out and then thats when your mom and dad should have a talk and find out what happen'ing............. hope this helps wish ya luck................
2006-12-08 02:33:54
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answered by sweetsweet31 2
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