What do women want from a guy???

Question

All I hear is "I want a nice guy that will treat me nice", or " I want a bad boy". Ladies which is it? All I see are women who have boyfriends who are assholes who treat them like crap. I'm a nice guy. Which i've been told by a lot of people. I've even tried being an asshole to women and it dosen't work. I guess the question is how does a very shy and nice guy pickup women or at least get their phone numbers?

Answer 1

Deep down women want good guys. Bad boys are sometimes fun to hang out w/ but it gets old quickly.

Answer 2

well first off how old are you because yes younger less mature girls want assholes but once girls mature into women they typically outgrow they phase and want a nice guy so stay nice and what women ultimately want is RESPECT so if you respect women then good for you and keep that quality always and if you are not respectful then get that quality and FAST because even if you don't get a date right now if you are respectful and courteous to women you will have a lot of girl friends and as far as the shy thing goes you don't even have to say anything to be "known" if you see a girl walking towards a door and you are closer to the door hold the door for her help out if a girl drops what she is carrying help her pick her stuff that sort of thing you may not say anything but you'll probably be noticed and if you are feeling daring and less shy that day then while gathering papers from the floor or whatever ask her for coffee or lunch something casual and if she doesnt offer her number after her minute give her your number

Answer 3

First be yourself - well, maybe a little better than you were yesterday. Then before you go over, think of one or two subjects you want to comment on. Then keeping in mind that people like to laugh & be friendly, try to say something funny but delivered in a way where you thinking - ok, if you dont welcome my advance, it's not really a problem. Each exchange will either open or close the door. You'll know. Then guess what, unless you're really good looking, you will be shot down but only a small part of that is your fault - it's just that you are not what she's looking for. So after you've landed safely with your parachute, you'll get into a new fighter plane & do it again. But always be polite becasue if you're not, you're a baby. Say, "Thanks, take care" and you da man!

Answer 4

I have been down the bad boy road and will never go back!!! I used enjoy the thrill of a bad boy but when it came down to our actual relationship i wasn't happy!!! And yes i was treated like ****!!! I like a good guys and its as simple as that, nothing turns me on more than a man with a great personality and confidence!!! You gotta be able to strike up a conversation and at the same time be confident in your self!!! Not COCKY but confident!!! But don't try to hard, if someone doesn't seem interested then they probably not, get the hint and move on!!! If you can get a good conversation going then ask for a dance or something depending where you are!!! then attempt to ask for there number!!! But don't try to jump in too soon!!! But like i side before be confident!!! Put some of that shyness aside and take some chances!!! Best of luck to ya!!!

Answer 5

Don't be an asshole. I don't want an asshole. Everybody wants to be treated nice. And trust me, that asshole thing gets old quick. All you have to do it be yourself. If you see a girl you like or are interested in, go over, talk to her, she'll like that you had the guts to talk to her. Even if you don't get a phone number, you'll build up confidence each time.

Answer 6

The fact that you asked this question gives most of them too much credit. These people are big children. Any woman who says one thing and does another should be beneath you. Yes, that may be most of them but are they worth it? Look at the crap relationships that they have already. You do not want any part of that. Do not let society tell you what your worth is, especially based on the woman that you are with.

They want bad boys? Then let them suffer with the bad boy. Not your problem. If they feel that you are beneath them then your sympathy, time and money is beneath them too.

Good luck.

Answer 7

The secret is to not try so hard. You always meet someone when you're not trying to. Maybe you become friends, or you happen to hang out with a group of friends and meet people through them, or you get to know someone in some other setting, like at work or school. If you are always trying to get girl's phone numbers and act like a pick-up artist, you are only going to get weird, desperate girls.

Answer 8

You can't just generalize an entire gender. Every woman is different and is looking for different things in her mate. Her views may change, but you need to look at women as individuals. I know it sounds cheesey, but be yourself. Don't try to be a badass just bc you think that is what some women want, I mean how long would you really be able to keep up that persona? Just don't be afraid to talk to women and to be confident. Good Luck.

Answer 9

Ultimately they want a guy to make them feel good about themselves... Make them think they are important to you without being the center of your life... its a mix of the good and the bad. But in the very beginning all girls I know, notice the looks you can be the nicest or ******** guy in the world and if you're ugly... not getting very far with a hot girl... its a sad, shallow, truth... but it goes both ways ugly girls have the same problems...

Answer 10

There is no magic formula. But one thing women dont typically like are men that are scared to ask them out. If you are bothered, make a game of it with your friends.

Everyone is scared on some level of being shot down, or not liked. Most of all...just be who you are. All good things come in time. Relax and enjoy!