I don't understand. Wouldn't it be more benificial to all parties involved if you would just show your guy what he's doing wrong and tell him exactly what it's going to take to get you off? If your guy wants a quickie, there is no way in hell that he can ever expect you to orgasm that quickly.... so again, why fake it? Don't all men know that there is WORK involved here to make their women hit the big one? please explain!!
2006-12-08 02:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by tazmanean_devil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I admit it.... it wouldn't happen with my present girlfriend. But then again, she has never been able to with anyone... and she's 30. She's never faked it simply because she just can't act. I'm happy to say though, with some "AID" it's now happening with regular occurance ;)
2006-12-08 02:32:23 · update #1
Some women feel embarrassed to tell their men how to do it to help. Some women don't want their men to feel less of a man by not being able to make them orgasm. My man and I communicate very well in the bedroom and he's never failed me yet. He gets me off first EVERY time. Even though sometimes it just takes forever. He's a very giving man. Comunicate ladies!
2006-12-08 02:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by tatslady2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay he can't expect you to orgasm that quickly? Well if it is done correctly I can orgasm in 2 minuets after we start. But the main reason woman fake it is because they don't know what they need to go...So they fake it to turn the guy on more and make him go I guess. I have never had the problem before I always can go at least once. I hate it when women get categorized like this you know we all are not the same!!! Why do men need instruction manuals all we need is stimulation and the rest can be told by body language!
2006-12-08 10:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most of the time....to get it over with. It gets boring when your not touching or pressing the right spot. You might not say the right things or be big enough....It's just to get it over with because we know if we start making sounds and acting like we are going to orgasm....you guys do your thing and its done. Then everyone can go home happy. I just go home and get my toy out and make sure the job is done correctly. Well, I used to before I found my MAN......OMG he touches all the right spots and its all worth it. I try to keep from reaching an orgasm with him just so that it will last longer.......Now, thats making some good love.
2006-12-08 10:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by T&E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i understand where u coming from
i myself never had that problem but i have alot of female friends who always talk about faking orgasm
i know its a man's job to satify her but not everyone is the same u may have satify the girl before but the new one like it a different way
its immature to fake one, if a man isnt making a woman climax then as two adults it should be talk about
allow her to teach u
i have had to teach girls how to make me climax whats the big deal man
2006-12-08 10:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think women fake orgasms, becuase, we do not have them everytime we have sex...and sometimes the guys keep asking if we had one...that is a turn off for after sex cuddling...Some women do not know what "does it" for them and are uncomfortable to explore their own bodies to find out what does make them tick.
2006-12-08 10:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To make a long story short, We really dont know why women do alot of things they do. Its kinda like the tootsie pop, how many licks does it take? The world may never know. anywho, the less you understand them, the least you are likely to be like them
2006-12-08 10:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Takeniteasy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares. If you get off and she doesn't, so what. Just be happy you did.
Actually, your question is a joke I've heard before.
Q: Why do women fake orgasms.
A: Who cares.
2006-12-08 10:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes when we fake it it's beacuase we dont want to seem boring in bed. If we just lie there and dont at least act like we enjoy it, then it's no fun for anyone.
2006-12-08 10:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by trickyandmysterious 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not all women fake. Your woman fakes so you'll get the hell off of her.
2006-12-08 10:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because dude! lolol
Iono its just something that we do I guess its because it takes a lot and I mean a lot to get us to that point iono thats my opinion
2006-12-08 10:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Queen of Da Trill 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋