Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

2006-12-08 02:02:43 · 17 answers · asked by BarCo 2 in Singles & Dating

She is afraid of the loss that she'll get from losing her current step-mom who treats her good and nice and the fear of when she finally meet her birth-mom whom she has never met b4, is she a slut or is she good...etc. Please help me to help her in answering this question. For a friend...

2006-12-08 02:02:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family

If my husband's child support amount was set when he was "non-custodial", and he has since won "shared custody", does he still have to pay child support, now that she lives with us part of the time?

2006-12-08 02:01:20 · 10 answers · asked by 12879 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend had her heart set on one, and now i dont know if i can get a personalized one by christmas

2006-12-08 02:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by slayer123 1 in Weddings

of course i ask him about it many times and when ever u have a problem u need to ask someones opinion someone who doesn't anything about u r your boyfriend and hear what they have to say nothing is wrong in asking and if we are hear to help each other that is what we should do why should you wish that on someone come on now.

2006-12-08 01:59:58 · 4 answers · asked by shelo 1 in Singles & Dating

Im here at school and it feels as if everyone hates me and wont accsept me, Its just that I want to feel as if i am any way i could do anything to help my cause?

Xx Vampi + Alex xX

2006-12-08 01:59:44 · 23 answers · asked by 3 little birds 2 in Friends

He's 14 and 6 months ago was doing bad stuffl. Bad crowds, unnacceptable behavior, he even was kinda mean to his younger sister. He got a severe punishment and woke up to what he was doing. He changed completely, made up for with his sister and today is an excellent kid. But that punishment traumatized him, he got depressed, feeling guilty, avoids friends, is always lone and lonely. His only social contact is with 2 friends and some people at a church where he volunteered to some activities. He was forgiven completely, but avoids us, is never at ease when we're around. It's hard to talk to hi. His respectful, today we have nothing to complain, but avoids us. Some days ago we could have a talk with him, he said he feels guilty, we'll always remind him of what happened. He also says he agrees what he did was wrong, but think we were too harsh and doesnt beleive we love him. Something broke inside him, he cant see us as loving parents any more. And each day he's more depressed and sad

2006-12-08 01:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-08 01:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner have been really struggling financially leading up to xmas.His Uncle has offered me £250 to do some saucy photos for him.Which im happy to do and the money would really get us out of the mess we,re in.I mean its family and hes seen it all before so wheres the harm?The problem is im allergic to Ketchup,brown sauce, even salad cream.My partner said i should tell him and find an alternative type of photo to do.But hes after saucy ones.Should i tell him or suffer the allergic reaction after ive got the cash?

2006-12-08 01:58:53 · 17 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 01:58:43 · 1 answers · asked by kenneth-sitch@rogers.com 1 in Friends

Last night i split up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. It has been a long time coming because he is controlling and has been reasonably aggressive in the past. I just blurted out that i wasnt in love with him anymore last night and that was that. He has been calling non stop crying and begging me, saying he has changed etc. We bought a house 6 months ago and he has moved all of his stuff out today. I feel so lost but i am sure this is what i should be doing. I am only 20, have an amazing job and i own my house and everything should be so good but i have been so miserable lately. I need to know what to do with myself now the biggest thing in my life is gone. HELP!

2006-12-08 01:58:43 · 25 answers · asked by Vicky 2 in Singles & Dating

My married daughter has lived out of state for 8 years. The grandkids are now 3 and 6. We were never on great terms, but civil, due to long story from college days, etc. My husband and I can never "win" with her. We have been told not to take things out on the kids. so I remember all birthday,s holidays, etc. We never hear a word. We are in Ohio , and she is in Oregon. It seems a losing goal, we can't gain ground with her. We feel she is not allowing the kids to get to know us, even long distance. She never calls, or nothing. No pictures through the internet of the kids or no contact at all when it comes to our celebrations. We are in our 60's now and anything could happen. On our end, we have put past behind us, but it seems she is holding on to it. We think drinking and maybe other addictions could be a part of her behavior. We went through all that during high school years. She estranged herself from us druing college and we have very little contact,We are blamed!!

2006-12-08 01:58:35 · 14 answers · asked by sequim2005 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just have a little question.... It seems like I am always wet down there. It get really aggravting. I am just wondering why is it and is there anything I can do to stop it from ALWAYS being wet.

2006-12-08 01:58:04 · 5 answers · asked by jdnsmama1 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 01:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 years dropped out of high school when he was younger but later we got him his GED and he enrolled in community college. He was trying and doing really good his first semester. Then during his second semester he just started slacking off. Whenever he had to study for a test he conviniently had a headache or stomache ache and etc. It really frustrates me and i tend to get really mad at him for it. i don't know if i should yell at him, just shut my mouth and let him deal with it completely on his own, or what? what's the best way to act in this situation? Help!

2006-12-08 01:57:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f and i have been together for 5 years and weve talked about getting married.. hes afraid of commitment... weve just gone thru a break up cuse he wasnt sure if i was the one.. we are starting to see eachother again and talking things slow... but i want him to move back in... is it too soon? its been 6 weeks... how do i change his mind about commitment...

2006-12-08 01:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a fat chick and is insecure. I've convinced her the B.J.'s she gives me is cementing and improving our relationship. Lately she has been complaining about do it so much and in the car, men's room etc...

Should I dump her for a few days just to scare her? A few months ago I slapped her around a little when she gave me an argument about lending me more money and she responded well and paid my rent again since I am behind in it. I told her if she loved me, she would part with the cash... she works two jobs and I'm unemployed and the unemployment ran out.

She talked about a diet and I said no. I dont want her to lose weight because she may get confident and not give me b.j.'s or meet someone else.

2006-12-08 01:57:16 · 11 answers · asked by Rico the Rican 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend lives in another state and lately she is having some family problems(Not about me) and she is getting VERY upset and wants out of it. It really makes me sad, because she is sad and I am unable to help(though I always make her day when I talk to her). But that's just me, can anyone tell me how I can help her. I really, REALLY, care about her and I don't like seeing her upset the way she is. I can't call her though. So, how can I help?

2006-12-08 01:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Drew S 2 in Singles & Dating

No, not all women. On more than one occasion, I have witnessed a scantily clad teenager or even pre-teenager out in public (belly shirt, super mininskirt, etc.) Then I see the mother. She is dressed in the same clothes as the kid or worse. Everything hanging out, even if it means belly flab exuding in folds over her supermini. If the women of today dress like harlots, and encourage their daughters to do so at such a young age, where is this world going?

2006-12-08 01:55:49 · 20 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

The other evening I came home to find my wife in bed with another man. He was large and had a round belly that shook. He had white hair and a long white beard and kept calling my wife a "ho ho ho" What should I do?

2006-12-08 01:55:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've heard lots of people nowadays telling me to 'chunk up da duece'

2006-12-08 01:55:14 · 9 answers · asked by ~**Milanou**~ Z 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 01:55:11 · 5 answers · asked by vivek 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys getting intimate... how to explain?
how do you define a guy who gets very physically intimate with ANY girl out there, (fat ones, short ones, ugly ones) such as putting his arm around their necks, touching and fiddling with their hair intensely, but just won't even to touch the girl he has a crush on? (the girl whom he confessed to be hot and pretty) how do you explain this?

sorry the second part. i mean, as in, he just won't go physically intimate at all with the girl whom he is sooo attracted with.

how do you explain this guy? why does he do this or what does he want?

2006-12-08 01:55:08 · 3 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 01:55:08 · 44 answers · asked by deepa 1 in Friends

2006-12-08 01:53:44 · 2 answers · asked by jules v 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the deal my Dad is moving out of town and he is going to give me a couch and some dressers because I dont really have any furniture in my apartment. So I need this stuff. The thing is we need to find a friend with a truck, and do not have the money to rent one. I got my ex boyfriend, who I am still good friends with, to help me out, for free. My Dad hates him and wont accept him coming over to help me. Because my ex is barrowing the truck from his friend I can not take it and drive it myself. So now my Dad wants me to spend the money to rent a truck! Which I think is extremely unreasonable, its like $50-90 and right now its Christmas so I need the money I have! So, I dont know what to do and Im really ticked off at my Dad. He has never really been there for me in my life when I was younger or as an adult and now he cant set his feelings aside for 30-40 min to help me out. I don’t have any friends with a truck. Any suggestions? What would you do about either?

2006-12-08 01:53:13 · 9 answers · asked by workless 2 in Family

I am 13 and I'm looking 4 an online BOYFRIEND !!!
Do you have a selloution !!

2006-12-08 01:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he had a crush on me since the first time we met.he confessed indirectly a while later.but after 1month,he said he want2gv up (maybe cos i wasn't reacting to reciprocate).but for nx 2months,he still hadn't gv up.he eyed me most of the time when i was with my friends,and he was friends with almost all the guys in my unit,except for this closest male buddy of mine.(this buddy could b seen w me almost all the time within campus)

then a new semester starts,he appeared like he no longer cares.he started to ignore me and acted like normal.so i supposed he has moved on with his own life and gotten over me.

but recently,as we were in front of a stall,he came and stood nx 2me while iwas looking at some foods.then he moved his head nearer and nearer towards me.(??)besides, another time, i was walking towards a place and coincidentally in same direction as him.he slowed down and waited 4me2catch up and chatted w me. (to be continued)

2006-12-08 01:52:41 · 4 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

after being married for ten years, I got divorced a few months ago. I have a beautiful six year old daughter and I still have a good relationship with her mom.
My question is, when is the right time to start dating again without causing any emotional and/or phycological problems to my daughter???

2006-12-08 01:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by Metrallo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to know some good songs to listen to keep my head up. it was my decision to take some time apart but i still miss him. Can you all help me with some songs to listen to to keep my spirits up?

2006-12-08 01:52:26 · 2 answers · asked by LiL mAmMa 2 in Singles & Dating