my b/f and i have been together for 5 years and weve talked about getting married.. hes afraid of commitment... weve just gone thru a break up cuse he wasnt sure if i was the one.. we are starting to see eachother again and talking things slow... but i want him to move back in... is it too soon? its been 6 weeks... how do i change his mind about commitment...
2006-12-08 01:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sadly you cannot...here comes in the old saying, "if you love it, let it go..." you know the rest..you have to move on..he wants to see if you are the girl for him before he settles...alot of men do this,,but dont torture yourself thinking it has something to do with you..it does not..men have a need to feel accomplished...maybe he wants to make sure that when he settles him skeletons wont come jumping out of teh closet..so he is making sure any dating worries are out of his system...its a smart move on his part...But you should date others as well..i know how u feel i was with a guy for 4 years and the same thing happend.. nothing worse than pushing him to be with you..and making someone feel obligated...so move on...Good Luck!!
2006-12-08 02:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by CharlotteGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with charlotte im going through the same thing except we are at the breaking up stage maybe we'll never get to the seeing each other again stage but if its for u it will come back
2006-12-08 10:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change his mind he has to make it on his own...
This book changed me life i couldn't put it down...I really suggest you read it and think of things
"he's just not that into you" amazing book written by the man who wrote "sex and the city"
2006-12-08 10:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him see that he cant be with out u and that u cant be with out him you cant change soembodies mind but maybe this might show him that he lovesu more then he really thinks he does and that'll maybe trigger something in his head that he wants to be with u forever.
2006-12-08 10:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell you sorry
2006-12-08 10:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.....he's not ready!!!!
2006-12-08 10:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋