I was talking with this guy occasionally, and told him that I'm not into that whole cy ber thing....for a while he was cool, and we just talked. A few days ago, he was trying to "go there" and I reminded him several times that he was not talking to one of "those" friends and "it's me....remember?" He said he did remember me, and kept on with it. Finally, I had to tell him off, but am wondering what posessed him to do this? I told him the first time we chatted, that I am a flirt, but keep it pretty clean....and that I don't do that, and that it would not hurt my feelings any if he didn't want to talk to me anymore, that I understand. He was cool, up until that point. what's up?
2006-12-08 02:32:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should be careful what you tell people and to always have an agenda when dealing with folks online. Just because your online, most people will take that for granted and do just about anything. That's why the online thing is just for entertainment purposes only. Above all else, never take anybody online seriously.
2006-12-08 02:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by JAMES R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! you stood your ground You Go Girl! and men like to fantasize and some women can be appealing with there words the funny part he could have been talking to a 3 legged toad and imagining she was Paris Hilton i am very proud that you drew a line and stuck with it there is more fish in the sea pat yourself on the back
2006-12-08 10:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by theessenceofrose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allot of crazy people exist on the internet because it is for the most part anonymous. Flirting to a certain point and saying stop makes you kind of a tease though. Before you judge people you may want to take a look in the mirror.
2006-12-08 10:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys get confused...they think "Oh I like this girl" that must mean that I want to do things sexually. I'm convinced that until guys to be about 30 they are lacking a serious connection between their brain and their hormones. (and some guys NEVER outgrow that)
It sounds to me like he likes you (why else would he be talking to you) and to an immature guy showing someone you like them is easiest through sexual ways because they don't have the mindset yet of 'expressing feelings that aren't sexual'.
Sorry I don't have a better answer, guys are just pigs :P
2006-12-08 10:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mask fell off and the real pig underneath came out. When a guy is a dirty loser to begin with, he could only keeo up the "act" for so long,.. then...... at least you found out b4 it went much further. Be careful on the internet...that is typical of guys at all ages.
2006-12-08 10:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thought he could charm you into doing it overtime. I had the same problem with a guy i'd know for about 20 minutes, he wanted to jack off for me over webcam. i really dont know why he thought i would be interested in seeing a complete stranger do that,its really not a turn on.
2006-12-08 10:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Psychodelic Chicken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was his thing... make you think he is alright with it talk to you for awhile then later on see if he could get you to do what he asked... That is usually how it goes from what i have seen.. It is sick. I feel that if they want it that bad then they should go out and get some and stay off the computer
2006-12-08 10:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is normal anyway? From what I hear and see now a days that is normal.If that isn`t you, cool just keep going people are hard to see some times.
2006-12-08 10:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he figured that he could convince you into that type of chat, he figured if he kept bringing it up it might turn you on or something like that.
some people are lame like that. just brush it off and move on, if thats not your intent then don't do it i mean whats he gonna do? come to your house and force you to cyber$3x of course not.
stand your ground dont let others try to pursue you or get you down by their actions be yourself and let it be
2006-12-08 10:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by babyg1rl_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a total horn dog who can't take no for answer. Beware about meeting people him online. If he doesn't respect you online, he won't respect you in person. Good Luck.
2006-12-08 10:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Devon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋