What can I do, my spouse will not talk to me and when I ask what is wrong he wont tell me? He rather make smart remarks than talk to me. Part of the problem is he wants to swing and I am hesitate do to I dont think it is for us, I think it is for him. Reason I think this is because we havent done anything or found anyone to do anything with so he gets all pissy and wont talk and makes slide remarks about it. He constantly has remarks about swinging constantly. I dont have time to sit around on the computer looking at ads so that makes him mad. How can something be about us when he acts like a child if I dont make it happen for him. He doesnt know I have called about a New Years Eve Party because if I do tell him, he will talk it to death.
Also, Christmas is here and he is always an ***. Our families are coming and that is great but I dont want to have this feeling up to the minute they get there. Please help me. Should I just ignore him or try to talk or just take the crap!
2006-12-08 03:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by If we don’t stand up for ourselves, NO ONE will 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I thank you all for your great answers so far, I did want to say that although I am hesitate about swinging, I have not said no due to I am mature enough to know it is just sex and no emotional attachment is to be there. On the other hand we are married and we stood before God and vowed to be with one another , there wasnt a footnote that said and any others we want to be with together. That is what I dont understand I havent said no but I also dont have the drive to sit in the computer room and look look look and I dont want to spend money on it. He states he is bored. Well, I wonder why. He sleeps with our 8 year old son and if we want to have sex I have to either stay up until our son finally goes to sleep and then do it on couch or wherever we can find a place then he goes to bed with him and me alone. Or we sleep in seperate rooms and one or the other gets up in the middle of the night and it happens then we are seperate again.
2006-12-08 03:19:03 · update #1
Tell him to stop being such a baby. You too took vows at your wedding where you said you would be there for another no matter what. If you don't want to swing you shouldn't have to and he shouldn't be forcing you to do it, nor should he be making you feel bad because you don't want to do it. Tell him you don't want to swing and thats it. (swinging creeps me out by the way and im sure i would feel the same way as you if i was in your position). Tell him to talk to you when he grows up a bit. You don't want to do it so you shouldn't have to. Don't take the crap and don't stoop to his level of ignoring him
2006-12-08 03:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by trs_shortie9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a butt-head and trying to punish you for not doing what he wants shame on him
Go about your business as if nothing is wrong then after Christmas season is over you may want to rethink your relationship and if you still want the man I suggest consoling for couples and consoling for yourself girl you pick a hard row to hoe good luck I wish you love
2006-12-08 03:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats what you want go for it but if not good bye if a person loves you they want to see you happy and you dont force things you can do bad by yourself life go's on be happy .
2006-12-08 03:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by shnnn_ivey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a large cast iron skillet and knock him in the head.
2006-12-08 03:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't deserve you. He wants to sleep with other women. If my husband wouldn't talk to me until he got to sleep with someone else I would leave his ***.
2006-12-08 03:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by vanessac2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it feels undesirable I believe u .. yet before each and every thing u might want to understand human nature if he/she doesn't communicate meaning he/she doesn't sense u in route of his/her coronary heart. tutor unconditional love then they'll immediately replace and be close with u
2016-11-24 23:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'd try it! Sounds exciting and all the better if he wants to do it with me!
2006-12-08 03:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just give him a taste of his own medicen and play his game back...... it really dose work.
2006-12-08 03:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it
2006-12-08 03:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by delboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋