He's overweight but not a slob or ugly. More like a football linebacker.
He goes to community college but people there don't hang out after class.
2006-12-08 03:02:29 · 31 answers · asked by drhowarddrfine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ease up and let him find his own way.
Maybe he is wanting to get his own life in order before jumping into that whole Girlfriend thing.
That would be a sign of maturity.
He will be fine, relax and let him make his own way in the world, if he wants advice, he will ask for it.
Just love him for who he is.
There are MANY worse things out there for him to be getting into!!
Peace!
2006-12-08 03:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can make him join in clubs 2 play tennis,baseball or even a health club. So that he can meet a lot of people,talk 2 them n make friends. The problem of overweight will be resolved along with that. But you should not accompany him wherever he go. U can give him guidelines but dont guide him!!
2006-12-08 03:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your son a favor and DO NOT even try "setting him up with girls"!! If you want to help him find girls then ENCOURAGE him to go places where there are people his age doing the things he likes to do!!! A real great way to help him meet girls is teach him to dance!! my sister told me when I was very youngthat if I wanted to get girls I need to learn to dance!! After learning to dance to both country and rock and becoming a pretty good dancer I found my sister to be 100% correct!!
2006-12-08 03:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him (and perhaps help a little) to organize a party, something cool where he could invite some friends and some of their friends... make sure girls will be there and the rest is up to him to meet some and see if there are any he finds interesting.
2006-12-08 03:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church. If your religion is not the same, the relationship will be difficult if not impossible. If you're not at all religious, what about the bars; but don't expect a lasting relationship from there. If he hangs out with you all the time, girls will pin him as a "mama's boy" and have nothing to do with him.
2006-12-08 03:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Angel L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but if a guy's mom or dad tried to help their son ask me out, I would turn them down.
It does not show initiative and shows that they are not independent enough to leave the nest.
The mom from Everyone Loves Raymond comes to my mind.
2006-12-08 03:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd point out some places for him to hang out after school where the girls are. but let him do his own talking to the girls, if you did put him with a girl and something went wrong he would blame you that it wasn't the right girl. so let him go on his own.. good luck MOM
2006-12-08 03:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by sexie1949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Kids never like it when mom and dad say they know someone that they would love to go out with. Just leave him alone. He'll find someone on his own schedule. He's still young.
2006-12-08 03:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of girls that are down with the big guys. not every girl wants a guy that's a twig. but there is nothing worse then your parent trying to hook you up with someone. let him be or he will never learn how to survive in the social world.
2006-12-08 03:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by IndeXed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know somebody nice, offer to introduce him, but don't force the issue.
Otherwise, let him go through this on his own. If there is something preventing him from finding a girl, he needs to figure this out on his own and choose somebody on his own.
2006-12-08 03:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋