Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

but then i remembered she still don't exist yet. now i am in quite a dilemma here.


what shall i do??

2006-12-08 03:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I been together for 2 1/2 years and everytime we argue (it could be the smallest thing). He packs up he's things and go's to he mother's house. Should I keep acceptting this childhood behavior.
He's 34 yrs old, no kids and we not married and everytime that conversation come up he tells me that he dont want to get married nor have kids.
what should I do?

2006-12-08 03:33:45 · 2 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

that way i can get the kids when he's not around. Also if i want the kids during the week.

2006-12-08 03:33:29 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 16 year old daughter. I was engaged to her father before the pregnancy, and when i got pregnant I ended the engagement due to hormones but did not know about the baby. His mother and I worked at the same place, and I told her at the time I was pregnant. Long story short she told me she would take care of it, and ended up telling him it was not his baby, etc. When she was born I opened a paternity case and of course he was the father and of course I once again gave him and his family the opportunity to be in her life, but the did not. NOW, 16 years later she has contacted him via the internet and NOW he wants to be a part of her life and come to find out she has been in contact with him through my mother. I was very upset and hurt over the entire thing, because I feel like I gave him and his family the opportunity to be a part of her life 16 years ago and they declined, why should I let him now. He has planned a visit with her and I am so upset about the whole thing.

2006-12-08 03:33:05 · 4 answers · asked by Cali Girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

At the mall the other day, this guy asked me if he could put his stuff in my trunk...so I opened the trunk of my car. He gave me a weird look and walked away. wtf? If he wanted something, he should've been a bit more clear.

2006-12-08 03:32:53 · 27 answers · asked by Jenny Frick-shun 1 in Singles & Dating

The situation is this: My mother forced me 2 marry a girl that I never knew or met before the wedding day. I was supposed 2 stay married 2 her 4 only until I received my greencard. Then I was supposed 2 divorce her and marry someone else my mother had picked out. Well, I feel in love with this woman and decided I am not going 2 ever leave her. I told her the truth about everything my mother and I had planned, and after much heated words, we finally made up and stuck together. Well, my mother was not happy about this. We moved out of her house right away, but many of our things were in her house. When she wasn't home one day I went there and retrieved some one my personal belongings. Because I didn't have permission 2 enter the house, I was arrested and then eventually convicted of a felony 4 residential burglary. My mother would only drop the charges if I got a divorce, which I didn't want 2 do. So, now I have this on my record forever. I haven't seen my mother since then (+10 years).

2006-12-08 03:32:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am currently 21 years old, and my parents are getting a divorce. I thought that they would have done it along time ago when things weren't going very well, but they didnt, but i am no longer living with them and now they have decided to call it quits. I feel guilty like they have been staying unhappily together because of me. I expected it along time ago but now that it's happening i dont know how to deal. Can anyone give me some advice on how to cope better.

2006-12-08 03:32:35 · 12 answers · asked by Ridin' Dirty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i use to like this boy last year but now he has a girlfriend and told my frined to tell me that he likes me at the begining when i found out i didn't liked him but now i do and i told him and he told me that he really likes me but he is not going to cheat on his girlfriend. WHAT SHOULD I DO????

2006-12-08 03:32:32 · 6 answers · asked by Claudia C 1 in Singles & Dating

answer from girls are invited

2006-12-08 03:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by vijay narang 1 in Singles & Dating

he'll act as if he's real tired, but he will play the xbox360. when he's hungry he'll call me way from the room for some juice.

2006-12-08 03:32:09 · 26 answers · asked by clark_nikia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

stacyann and i like gabriel berlange and i like j.shawn.

2006-12-08 03:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by amouya f 2 in Friends

I HAVE RECENTLY BROKEN UP WITH A MAN I HAVE BEEN WITH FOR 8 YRS. HE WAS MENTALLY ABUSIVE THROUGHOUT OUR RELASTIONSHIP. AND I REALLY HAVE A LOT OF HATRED TOWARDS HIM. WELL I HAVE BEGAN TALKING WITH THIS GUY FROM HIGHSCHOOL THAT I DATED THROUGH OUT THE 4 YEARS I WAS THERE HE BROKE UP WITH ME BECAUSE I WAS STUBBORN AND SELFISH AND NOW I HAVE CHANGED (SOME). HE WORSHIPED THE GROUND I WALKED ON AND GAVE ME EVERYTHING I EVERWANTED AND PERIODICALLY HAS CALLED ME THROUGHOUT THE 13 YEARS THAT WE HAVENT SEEN EACH OTHER. HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR ME. WELL THE GUY THAT I WAS DATING FOR THE LAST EIGHT YEARS IS STILL TRYING TO GET BACK WITH ME AND HE IS CRAZY THREATING ME AND STALKING ME ALL THE TIME. AND SOME HOW I FEEL BAD FOR TRYING TO MOVE ON WHATS WRONG WITH ME?

2006-12-08 03:31:46 · 4 answers · asked by littlereddragon 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 03:31:08 · 3 answers · asked by Cassie G <3 2 in Friends

2006-12-08 03:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by Binky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl at my school who I am friends with and i met her this year, I am also friends with another girl who I have been friendds with for years. They dont like each other and they want me to both be their friend. I want to be friends with both of them but they dont liek each other and the only time I GET to see is in my 7th period class (they are both in the room) and they both want to talk to me (cept on weekends I forgot about then) and I want to be friends with both but they ddont like each other and usually end up fighting because I want to be friends with both, what should I do?

2006-12-08 03:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Friends

well..i've been dating this guy..hunter. && everything was good to begin with..but lately..he's been acting wierd..&& i kinda have been talking to another..guy..roy.

hunter has already admitted to me that he likes this other girl..alot.
& i even have firends that say they see him hanging with her all the time, alone.

but hunter likes me also.

thats why he's dating ME.

i want to date roy..really bad.
but im worried that if i break up with hunter for roy..then roy won't even want to date me for long.

[[i know from experience]]

but i don't want to hurt hunter at all.

i have feelings for the both of them.

please give me some advice!! =]]

it will be much appreciated.

<3

2006-12-08 03:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me what HE did, why do men like to play games? what is your story? why are you two not together anymore?

2006-12-08 03:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is in jail for violation of probation ,and family violence, She is my husbands step daughter by prev marrage, I have two of her three kids ages 1 and 2 . I can't say its all his fault with the violence because she thinks she a bad *** like her mother. WE are the only ones the state trust with them . I am very sick and sometimes I can't even take care of myself.I have had them for 3 months now and she calls to say she is 5 months pregannt again.When she get out she plans to go back with him and I don't think the cps lady will allow that . I heard they plan on kidnapping and fleeing. they are total idiots ,. I can't keep this up with the kids but don't want to lose them either.any answers.

2006-12-08 03:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by martha g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he keept looking for me here and there after the break up,I admit the fact that it was me the one who messed up and I asked for forgiveness from the deepest of my heart.Well he kept looking for me and just when I would think every thing was starting to work out again between us...he would surprise me with a low down degrading abusive break up followed by a violent asult against me and almost convincing me of having to accept him beating on me ,according to him it is only fair since Ive put him through hell in the beggining of our relation ship.I love him so much and I miss him dearly, but some how I started to get out of my depression and continued step by step to get on with my life.....and when I least expected it ...........there he comes again...calling me looking for me askiing for me....Why ????

2006-12-08 03:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can you tell they really like you?

2006-12-08 03:29:45 · 8 answers · asked by masian 1 in Singles & Dating

I usually purchase my Mom and step father a combined present for Christmas, but this year I am stuck. I have no clue what to get them because they have everything especially kitchen stuff. Any suggestions in the price range of $50-100? They are out there kinda people...not conservative at all and very fun. What are your suggestions?

2006-12-08 03:29:31 · 5 answers · asked by sydney72103 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 03:28:57 · 1 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband told me a little over a month ago that he wanted a divorce. At that point I didn't want one and I was completely crushed for a few weeks. I'm already feeling so much better, and then he has to come back and tell me how wrong he was and say he's sorry and he wants me to come back home. I know its very possible that maybe there was someone else during this time (that seems to be the popular belief) and that things will just be like they were before, which was very bad. He was very controlling and very mean to me. I still care about him and it upsets me to see him this way, because it's like we're reversed now- he's the one who's crushed, and I'm the one who's doing it. Any suggestions? I feel really bad about this.. it hurts me to see him upset.

Oh yea, and at times he was mean enough that I would consider it to be verbal abuse.

2006-12-08 03:28:47 · 28 answers · asked by ckp1234567 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 03:28:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my husband are arguing everyday. Im pregnant & very depressed. He tells me everything is my fault all the time and just keeps shouting at me. Im fed up with it hes making me so miserable. What do i do?? I dont see that leaving him is an option - mainly cos i have nowhere to go and i dont want to prove everyone right about us not lasting.

2006-12-08 03:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by Lau Lau 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like putting myself in situations that i really feel uncomfortable in?

2006-12-08 03:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by bossygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Heya, I am being mad really, i don know wat to do ? Pls help and guide me to come out from this pain. I am 26 years male staying London, UK. I belong to India but now staying here, There is a solidpain what i feel still with me is about my ex gf. I had a girl fried, she is a worst mexican, who used me a lot and then a sad breakup which broken me completely. I am simple and genuine and i was serious about relation but it was a game for her. She had 2-3 affairs after this break up. I am still single and lonely. I dont know i feel so much pain though ,so hate too. so much tears, feel jealousy, very sad and lonely some time though. Please guide me that i can forget her and forget all the feelings which is connected about her I really feel very very sick passing through this situations.I left my country because i wanted to stay far from her. I just want to come out from this or will die coz i am very sensitive and emotional that i can;t see her with someone else.Pls help me D :

2006-12-08 03:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by Danny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What to do ? Me n my b/f love each other so deeply but we know we cannot be together in future .... lately i know (due to some reason ) he is going to get marry with some1 after a year ....
We broke up so many times ... but we get back again so many times cos we love each other so deeply .... but knowing we cannot last for long and we r stil together so what to do in this case ....
1. We both love each other so deeply
2. We know we cannot be together bcoz we try lots of method.
3. its really hard to break off.. cos we tried so much .. n cannot live without each other ....

im really confusing n dunno what to do .... i really love him n don't want to lose him .. cos he's my first love n i had never been in love b4 .. n i dun want to be in love if i break up with him cos im afriad to be hurt again n i dun trust anybody .... im heart broken ....

2006-12-08 03:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by Saga 1 in Singles & Dating

i have an ex. we have been broken up for 4 months...i want to get back with her but i believe she is seeing someone else. do u think there is hope of us getting back. i get mixed signals from her. i truly believe she still cares about me. do girls still about guys when seeing someone else?

2006-12-08 03:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by big guy 1 in Singles & Dating

be okay to serve hors d'oeuvres, like tea sandwiches and veggie tray, instead of having a buffet meal.

2006-12-08 03:26:01 · 29 answers · asked by pandabear1982 1 in Weddings