What to do ? Me n my b/f love each other so deeply but we know we cannot be together in future .... lately i know (due to some reason ) he is going to get marry with some1 after a year ....
We broke up so many times ... but we get back again so many times cos we love each other so deeply .... but knowing we cannot last for long and we r stil together so what to do in this case ....
1. We both love each other so deeply
2. We know we cannot be together bcoz we try lots of method.
3. its really hard to break off.. cos we tried so much .. n cannot live without each other ....
im really confusing n dunno what to do .... i really love him n don't want to lose him .. cos he's my first love n i had never been in love b4 .. n i dun want to be in love if i break up with him cos im afriad to be hurt again n i dun trust anybody .... im heart broken ....
2006-12-08 03:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by Saga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my advice to you is. I was in the same situation. I know you love him and you will continue to love him. I think yall should separate because you are only going to hurt each other. When you do break up with him it will be hard so try not to have a number or an address on him. You can not live your life thinking about him because you will miss out on your blessings that GOD
have in store for you. trust me when you leave that problem behind God will send you something better. even when you find that special someone you sometimes will think about him, but he is in the past and think about how your life is going with out him. The answer will be excellent. Iv been married for 2 years and i still think about my first love. you will always love him but you will never be in love with him, you just have to learn how to control your feelings.
2006-12-08 03:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by charlenewill2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by troesch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I am in the same situation right now. We love each other but staying together is impossible. Sometimes you just have to let go of the one you love. Maybe someday in the future you can try again but for whatever reason, right now it's just not working. If you do stay together you will only hurt each other and end up resenting each other.
2006-12-08 03:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you only have a sexual bond between you if he love you so deeply he would not marry another regardless. Please find someone you can have a real relatonship with your probably a beautiful young lady with a lot to offer. Don't sell yourself short Whatever you think on that will come to so be sure you are thinking positive get a man thats single why are you playing second do you have low self esteem?
2006-12-08 03:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you BOTH know it will not work, then you are completely wasting your time and breath on this earth. I can relate in ways but you HAVE to come to terms and just break it completely. It is the ONLY way to move on and find someone who fits you better. Try reading "It's called a break-up because it's broken" GREAT book. Talks seriously about this....READ IT (same guy who did "He's just not that into you")
2006-12-08 03:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by 3000gthottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw :( .. he's your first love. It's gonna hurt.
Just remember .. If it's ment to be it will be.
I cant tell you how many time my Husband & I broke up an got back together before we got married !! Hang in there , Love is not always Fun , it hurts like hell too.
2006-12-08 03:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there are plenty of fish in the ocean.. If u keep going back to him u would never be able to move on ..
2006-12-08 03:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean break. It's not much fun - but time is a good healer. Good luck.
2006-12-08 03:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by sjc_three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for your love is the only thing u can do
2006-12-08 03:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by smartie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same happened to me. DO NOT let him go. It messed me up physically and MENTALLY. Don't let it happen o you.You'll never get over him.
2006-12-08 03:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋