There is a girl at my school who I am friends with and i met her this year, I am also friends with another girl who I have been friendds with for years. They dont like each other and they want me to both be their friend. I want to be friends with both of them but they dont liek each other and the only time I GET to see is in my 7th period class (they are both in the room) and they both want to talk to me (cept on weekends I forgot about then) and I want to be friends with both but they ddont like each other and usually end up fighting because I want to be friends with both, what should I do?
2006-12-08 03:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they want to stop being your friend because of it then let them. Your "friends" need to get over themselves. Talk to them about it and tell them you're tired of it. You want to still be friends, but if they are going to give you so much crap, THEY need to choose. Be your friend and accept the other girl, or be stubborn and just not talk to you either.
2006-12-08 03:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by memememe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me a LOT in school.
Unfortunately you have to tell them you aren't willing to make a choice when it comes to picking just one of them. You can't make them like each other, but do different things with each one.
Like if you enjoy doing certain things with one friend do that, and same for the other. Make sure you aren't neglecting one to be with another, that's not very fair.
But dont overwhelm yourself either, take some time just to be alone and do things you like to do on your own.
Hope this helps! :)
2006-12-08 11:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why they don't like each other and try to get them to make up and be friends. Then you can all hang out together.
2006-12-08 11:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make everyone happy but ask them to make you happy everyone has somthing in common like music or hobbies girls can be nasty so you have to be carefull not to listen to any bad mouthing from one to the other and if you cant get them to be friend then just organise your time with them have one day with one and one dday with the other
2006-12-08 11:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by big b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look this is a chiltish game u can be friends with who u want and if they dont like it screw em
2006-12-08 11:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋