that way i can get the kids when he's not around. Also if i want the kids during the week.
2006-12-08 03:33:29 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i am the one that can tell you this from experence ( from the kids point of view ) you should get along with her because in the long run the kids will turn and that is when the sperating starts with you and the kids because they want things to be happy even if their parents are not together. so please get along with her even if she refuses she will look bad and you wont
2006-12-08 03:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by sam b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RE: Why do ex-spouse's attempt to flip youngsters towards ex-husband's and come to be bitter when ex-husband re-marries. I've been married to my husband for four years now. We are a blended household. I have 3 children and he has 1 little one along with his ex-wife. I'm 15 years younger than my husband and eight years younger than his ex-wife, i would hate to consider that has whatever to do together with her resentment twords me. Within the begining...
2016-08-10 00:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes! You guys don't have to be best friends, but at least be cordial to each other. I get along pretty well with my husband's ex wife and it just makes life easier in general and I think it has relieved some of the stress off of my husband.
2006-12-08 03:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RE: Why do ex-spouse's attempt to tutor toddlers against ex-husband's and grow to be bitter while ex-husband re-marries. I even have been married to my husband for 4 years now. we are a blended kinfolk. I even have 3 toddlers and he has a million baby along with his ex-spouse. i'm 15 years youthful than my husband and eight years youthful than his ex-spouse, i could hate to think of that has something to do along with her resentment twords me. interior the begining...
2016-10-05 01:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it would confuse the kids even more if you didnt make an attempt to get along with the ex. Step life is already hard enough for kids to understand.
2006-12-08 05:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should for the kids.. because if you do not then there is going to be alot of drama all the time,, She is someone you are going to have to deal with for as long as you are with your husband.... Talk and be nice to her an she may end up liking you as a friend.... unless the marriage ended on a bad note and she has issues with your husband..... Good Luck
2006-12-08 03:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found it best to let my husband deal with her, I am not interested in being friends with her, but I am not rude to her. I just ignore her most of the time, unless it has to do with the kids. The main reason they are divorced is because they couldn't agree on how to raise the kids. She thinks he is too strick, while she lets them do anything they want.
2006-12-08 03:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be the better one and at least try to be friends with her, I mean at least for the kids sake you don't want them thinking that you hate their mommy, well Good Luck
2006-12-08 03:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try if she is willing .My sons wife tries to get along with his ex but she can't get over it after 4 years,even tho she lives with and has a baby by another. If your lucky enough to have one that your able to get along with go for it , it makes things a lot easier for the kids and you.
2006-12-08 03:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Stepmom starring Julia Roberts.
2006-12-08 03:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋