Great advice everyone and just to clarify... I've been with my wife for almost 9 years, married only 9 months though ( and no we're not having a baby ) lol.
It's not that sex controls my life, I function normally, I can drive without distraction, do my work, etc. I just feel like inside, I need to be having more sex. I do masturbate, sometimes before work in the morning, but usually when she's not home. Even after doing that I don't feel fullfilled.
I definitley will not seek out other women for sex, I will not cheat on my wife. I also do not want to bring another woman into the bedroom.
I have a good home, job, life basically, so no low self esteem....
We do other things together, play games, movies, dinners, weekend getaways, etc.
I do the "seduction" thing sometimes, bubblebath, flowers, candles etc. She usually goes along with it, but if I do it too often, I think she'd not be too excited about it.
2006-12-08
03:58:24
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