Is it a crime to love someone deepley?

Question

I am in love and he loves someone else, but also he said he loves me too. what should I belive?

Answer 1

Forget him and find a man who can give you the undivided attention you deserve. There is only heartache and pain on that path.

Answer 2

Women are often very vulnerable. If someone says they love you, you are going to take that in your head (and heart) and depend on what he said was true. If he's with someone else but says he loves you, he's either confused and doesn't know what he wants or he's playing you. Either way, it's not the type of person you want to be with. If he can't make up his mind and decide what he wants to do with his life, then he's not ready to be in a serious relationship.
You can always care about this person, and that's no crime. But for your best interest, I wouldn't count on that fact that "someday" you "may" have a romantic relationship with him. Don't rely on what he wants......have fun, mingle, and real love will find you when you least expect it! (Sounds corny, I know....but it's true).

Answer 3

i can not say if it is a crime to love someone deepley as i have no idea what that means, however, it is not a crime to love someone deeply.

it is also not a crime to love someone who is in love with someone else but it is hard on you toaccept being in that situation. i 'shared' for 5 yrs and in the end still had to move on. so why waste the time?

i agree it is possible to love 2 ppl at the same time but not in the same way. it is time for lover boy to decide who he loves more and want to spend the rest of his life with.

if you abide with it he will never choose, this way he gets the best of both worlds. you deserve better...

Answer 4

I'd say that either find someone else or accept the fact that if you want a relationship with this guy you'll have to share!!! Oh yea you better find out if the other girl is willing to share him too or you may have a fight on your hands!! Good luck -- but again I'd turn away and run as fast as I could!!!

Answer 5

Yes, it is a crime. Report yourself to the local authorities immediatey. You're looking at a 2-3 year sentence at best...

Answer 6

Maybe he loves you in a different way or is saying it so he won't hurt you. You should try to move on and find someone that isn't attached. It will be healthier for you.

Answer 7

here is your answer for that question:love and let love..meaning it's alright to love somone but if your not number one then it's useless.You can love many people for who they are and what they do.Tell him to show you what he means when he said"he loves you and the other person too.Please remind him that this is 2006 and we no longer have Kings with many wives.It's alright to love sombody but a crime "NOPE"be sure it's your heart and not your head..Think about that one.Your heart tells you the truth you head will make you confussed.

Answer 8

I would not believe him. If he loved you he would end the other relationship and work on himself for a bit then try to build something with you. I think he's confusing lust with love. Keep your eyes open. Be careful.

Answer 9

it's not a crime to love someone deeply...Love is not blind but lovers usually do...
trust your "Instincts", your gut feel about his feelings for you... But as I can see it, it's very obvious that he is not sincere.
Date someone who deserve your love and love you 100%.

Answer 10

He doesn't love you are he would not be able to love someone else also - he is not dependable - find someone who is!@