this girl ive been datin says she is falling in love with me which is okay becuz i am crazy about her -- but she lives with her boyfriend! She dont want to kick him out becuz he has nowhere to go! I put my foot down last nite, and told her im not playin second fiddle to nobody--- did i do right thing!! i dont want to lose her!! what do i do???
2006-12-08 04:06:00 · 14 answers · asked by VtHokie57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you will continue dating her when she gets hinm out, then stick to it, you deserve better than that. People will treat you the way you ALLOW them to. There's something more to the story than she just feels sorry for him. You did the right thing, trust your instincts, they are there for a reason.
2006-12-08 04:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for starters, this is a very awkward situation. She is living with her boyfriend, while seeing you? Something isn't right here, she is cheating on both of you technically, plain and simple. I think you did the right thing, personally, this never would have happened if I was in your shoes, too many conflicts can occur in this situation.
2006-12-08 12:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you did is perfectly fine! Sounds like she is "falling" in love with you, but hasn't quite "fallen" just yet. It's a no brainer.
Why did you say that she lives with "her boyfriend"? If they are still boyfriend and girlfriend, you don't have her! She needs to pick you or you need to pick someone else. Good luck!!!!!!!!
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The more I think about it, you did the WRONG thing! Move on before you lose your heart.
2006-12-08 12:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by whadda-dingo-gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Please stick to it. My friend was in the same situation but fail to stick to it when her guy friend (who has ex living in his house) begged her and promised her there was nothing going on. She was forced to act like a "hidden mistress" when he is "working" on his home issue. You don't need to get there. Tell her that you likes her a lot but you can only be with her when she is available. Then date others. Good luck.
2006-12-08 12:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by A foggy day 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all yes you did the right thing. how the hell can she say she's starting to fall in love with you if she's still living with HER boyfriend? thats f-ing retarted. put your foot down and if you lose her o well sounds like a slut to me.
2006-12-08 12:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you did the right thing...I wouldn't want my boyfriend living with his ex. If she is truely in love with you she will kick out her slacker ex. I wouldn't let this go on any longer than it has to...if you have to go kick his lazy a.s.s yourself
2006-12-08 12:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell yeah you did the right thing! If she is truly falling in love with you she will do what needs to be done to meet your approval!
2006-12-08 12:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk away until she breaks up with her boyfriend. You are both cheaters- but she is worse, if she lived with someone and dated you. If you are unattached, you are less wrong, but why it's still unethical. And if she does leave him, to come to you, can she be trusted???
2006-12-08 12:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course you did the right thing?
but why are you messin with a chick that has a boyfriend?
that means she is cheating on him with you, correct?
so what makes you think that she wont do the same dirty trick to you? you really couldnt find somebody who is SINGLE? i wouldnt even mess with that.....that's low.
on both your parts
2006-12-08 12:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is ok to put your foot down.i would do the saamething.maybe you should just talk to her aabout fixing the guy up with an appartment and a job.
2006-12-08 12:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by prboricua432 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋