I do sometimes. Not because I do not love my wife and kids but it is always crazy there that time of day. Work is just getting quiet and layed back that time of day. Anyone else?
2006-12-08 03:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband does. That or he goes to the bar or a friend's house. I guess if his day is that bad I don't want him coming home and adding to the chaos anyhow. But, you guys should realize that while you are out relaxing, your poor wife is home going nuts. Wouldn't it be nicer to hire a sitter and both get a break?
2006-12-08 04:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey brian - i totally understand what you're going through. of course, it's a very busy and sometimes unbearable life that people lead when they are married and have to work too. it's a very delicate case. i don't know how it is at your home - the relationships among your wife, your kids and you - so i cannot really tell you what you should do. so, i advice you to see the positive side of your life - see, you've got a family waiting for you when you get back home and this is very important. many people would like this. you can try to enjoy yourself with your family for example. i mean - it's a real fun and very important that you take care of your family and see how things evolve when you are a father and a husband. do this for your sake as you are having people of your own caring for you and i'm sure that you don't want to lose this. if you are too tire by your work - try to find a way out. do something - but keep the right path.. don't make your family suffer from what you are gonig through. you can go out more often - fine and activity with you like and find interesting to do - this may help you to relax a little.. no matter how crazy it may be when you get home - try to do your best to keep thing running - don't ruin your family..
i hope that i've help you in some ways.. good luck
take care
2006-12-08 04:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Zan-îve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think lots of people do this and it can be a problem. Let me tell you why because the more you stay away it can cause you to think on things you have no business I understand where you are coming frombut a idle mind is the devil workshop. Talk to yourwife about giving daddy some get home me time you deserve that you have been working hard all day and need that down time. No questions are answer towards daddy during this time for you no bill no problem just you message chair and the remote a beer or a snack before supper i pray she does this are your marriage can be in trouble God bless you
2006-12-08 04:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you do the same if you only had a week to enjoy with your family as it is today? I thought I'd ask that first, but on the other hand, it is pretty normal to try to seek a little peace. I don't as much as hang around work late when there's really no specific reason, but I do take a longer way home or stop at a gas station or store, or go for a quick drink after work. It is kinda sad, but I know a lot of people I know do it, so you're definitely not alone.
2006-12-08 04:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont' you try letting your wife know that when you come home after a long day you want at least an hour of quiet. and its time for the kids to work on homework or go to another room or have there bath time. that way you don't have to stay at work longer after you finnish you can come home and have some quiet time with wife or reading the paper. the kids can go into another room and have a time out or at least keep it down when dad comes home for a few hours.
2006-12-08 14:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you prefer is marriage, end putting the cart in the previous the pony with the intention to communicate. Separate your bills and don't purchase a house yet. shop saving for a downpayment yet do not conform to any further joint stuff until you're engaged. Or take him up on the JP grant and purely pass get married.
2016-10-17 23:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Friday afternoon, I have no real work that can't wait until mid-next week, and I'm going to be here for another hour or so. I have some work to do at a second job that will take me about one or two hours and I plan on spending the afternoon there.
Basically, get paid to enjoy peacefulness? No, you're not alone.
2006-12-08 08:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I can't wait to see my family in the evening. I feel like I neglect them alot during the work week, so I look forward to seeing them at the end of the day. I do need some Mommy time every once in a while-that's normal for any parent.
2006-12-08 04:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by askywalkersmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid the step-kids, yep. Love the misses but the kids can be a bit much (8,6,4). Better for me to take the hands off approach and get the OT money. Their real dad is involved in their life so my actual role is minimal.
2006-12-08 04:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I do sometimes. I take my time going home because I know that it will be some sort of kaos going on there. I wait for the hours to come so I can goto sleep.
2006-12-08 04:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋