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theres a nice sweet cute smart.. boy in my class i love him and never felt this way before but i dont think he even likes me or knows me should i ask him out or what should i do

okay i should of been more clear he knows my i laugh at his jokes but a lot of girls i think fell the same way

Answer 1

You should try talking to him and see if he is really all you think he is. Don't tell him you love him and stop believing that nonsense because you DON'T know him. You cannot honestly love a stranger.

Answer 2

First of all...How old are you? Let me tell you that when I was in 4th grade there was this boy that I had to dance with in my afterschool dance group that I didnt like at all. Then freshman year in high school I started talking to him more and we turned out to be great friends. Then Junior year I started getting this crush on him, but I didnt do anything about it because I thought he was going to reject me and I was going to loose him as a friend. And as it turns out, he probably would have. But 2 years after we graduated high school, we both matured, and now we are married. I think that if I would have told him that I liked him back then, he would have rejected me and I wouldnt be married to him right now. Girls mature faster than boys do (if they ever do) so if you're feeling something s strong as love for him (which by the way I dont think that's what it is) he may not be mature enough to have the same feeling for you. But start by trying to be his friend. Just make conversation, maybe go to some school sporting event with him, be his friend so that he can get to know you and then maybe....6 years later you'll be married to the man of your dreams like me. :-) If not, dont frett, there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are very young and not in a hurry to be tied down, trust me.

Answer 3

i think the most common answer you would get for this question is to just go out and ask him out.
if i were you, i would really wait it out. for how long could you have possibly known him? 3 months? 6 months? i bet less than that.
you need to get to know him first. what you re probably experiencing is one of your first few hundred crushes. in such cases invariably you are letting your heart rule over your head. of course he is cute and smart and all that, but how well do you know him otherwise? get to know him first. strike up a conversation. test the waters. know him well-enough. maybe you guys are never made for each other. who know? maybe you're soul-mates! but every relationship if it has to be, will definitely be. so with that confidence get to know him really well before you ask him out.

Answer 4

That reminds me of the song from A*teens....morning bus...yeah I am sure you are thinking omg who the heck are ateens anyways. What I think you should do is talk to the boy and see if you can tell anything is going on because if he doesnt know you and you randomly asked him out then that would be kind of odd. Get to know him and become friends with him and then take it from there.

Answer 5

Ok you can't love him. You might fantasize about what it would be like to be with him and love that idea but you don't love him.
Now that we got that cleared up, talk to him or pass him a note. Give him a number and ask him to call you. Make a move make him notice you, get a name and go from there.

Answer 6

You should ask yourself if it is not passion or what are your perspectives or purposes.If you really love him and you find all the characteristics you were looking for,seeking for an opportunity to approach him.Remind you :you should not be only emotional,but also rational.Whatever decision you make today will affect your future, positively or negatively that depends on your choice.

Answer 7

If you are afraid of rejection, then maybe you shouldnt take that chance.
Also, how can you love someone who doesnt even know you exhist? You need to have a better control over your emotions before you get your feelings hurt. I'm telling you from a woman's stand point!

Answer 8

Talk to him, try to get to know him a little better before asking him out. Don't say you love him though.....he may be the total opposite than what you think

Answer 9

Just talk to him first and show him some attention.....then if you like who he is you can then try asking him out....or if he likes you after he gets to know you, you may not have to ask him out. He may ask you first. On the other hand, after you find out what kind of guy he is, you may not even want to go out with him.

Answer 10

What you should do is study organic chemistry, go on to become a neurosurgeon, cure dementia and come back for him when you're in a position of strength and finanical stability. Then, really, how could he turn you down?