Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

2006-12-08 08:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by boyconfused 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my job and he's 20 years older then me.but we both have this weird connection.everytime I see him I some what get butterflies.but let me tell you about the christmas bash that we had.it was great,I had on a revealing suit that showed every curve of my body and most of my cleveage.ok back to the gossip,well we danced together four times,but people in other departments kept getting in between us. so anyways after sipping martinis and laughing,he told me how he really felt.....!ok i'm so clueless I don't even know what to do,so that's where you and ur advice comes in at so tell me should I:

a.Call it just a crush and leave it alone

b.Respond back with a more direct approach

C.Ignore that it ever happened and stick to doing my job


Sincerely

Trixy

2006-12-08 08:00:25 · 10 answers · asked by Trixy 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy for a while and lately im just not sure if this relationship is working out. I mean he is probably the best boyfriend i have ever had but we never see each other. It is hard for us to talk about anything. And even though this shouldn't matter all my friends are saying I need to break up with him.

Ever since a couple days ago i just felt that there isn't any connection adn that maybe we weren't ment to be together
i wanted so much to make this relationship work out and now it isn't and i don't know what to do.
I don't want to loose him as my friend and thats some of the reason im afraid to break up becuase he may not talk to me again.
some other things about how i feel is that i feel i still have feelings for this guy i use to like before i dated my present boyfriend and i don't want him to think that im going to cheat on him becuase i wouldn't do that.

what do you guys think i should do?
if you think i should let him go how do you think i should te

2006-12-08 08:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4 in Singles & Dating

What do I do if im looking for my 3 little brothers how can I find them please help me give me some advise or some thing we were seperated when we were younger our parents were drug heads but now one of them is dying and I really need to find them their names are Ray Allen and Simon I'm their sister Veronica Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-08 07:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by Lil' Momma 1 in Friends

What is a real good clitoris warming gel?

thank you

2006-12-08 07:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. Libra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

male or female?

2006-12-08 07:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my parents are divorced plz help me!

2006-12-08 07:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine does and it's driving me crazy! I don't want to watch it anymore!

2006-12-08 07:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a problem. Theres this girl i like at college but im offically useless at talking to girls. My mate gives me the best opportunities to talk to this girl, but i just end up running away. Its kinda embarrasing for him as well cos i just left him stood there :(. She was even walking behind me once on her own and i still didnt say anything.
I cant even say hi and last time i talked to a girl i liked, i ended up stuttering like an idiot.

Whats wrong with me and what can i do about it??

2006-12-08 07:58:56 · 10 answers · asked by Rick G 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 07:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

men are such @ssholes, they leave there wife for another women, and if the women did this to them they go on acting like they own the women, but they don't! if a man is 40 years old and a women half his age comes along, he'll leave his wife in a second for this women even if he did love his wife, because they only care for there dic.ks! or they will go out and cheat on there wife with some other women thinking there wife will not find out, and than surprice surpirse, there wife does find out, and they feel all depreesed and sad when there wife leaves them! WHO GIVES A SH.IT ABOUT YOU MEN, YOU DON'T CARE FOR WOMEN! all you men care about is your di.ck, that's all!

any women that agrees with me??

2006-12-08 07:58:48 · 24 answers · asked by Kelly T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been toghether now for about 5 years,he was such a sweet tender guy, but he has changed a great deal lately. he started of by calling me names that i didn't like, but i still stuck to him. but now he is untolerable, the names he's calling me are very insultive, i used to be blonde and cos of his slur about blonde women i changed to a red head,why is he like this and what should i do?

2006-12-08 07:58:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 07:58:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you suggest as the first thing I should do to get with the here and now? I am very shy.

2006-12-08 07:57:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you be embarrassed to be seen in pubic with me or even take me to a family event?

2006-12-08 07:57:41 · 28 answers · asked by your_name_here 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl at chruch she is 15 i am 17. lasttime at chruch i look at her and then she look at me but noone smile. that next week she look at me like 15 secs but i look down on the ground. why am i too shy but i want to tell her my feelings .

2006-12-08 07:56:39 · 7 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known my girlfriend for over a year and i really love her..... now i'm thinkin of gettin her an engagement ring for christmas but i'm in my late teenage years. Am I making the choice?

2006-12-08 07:55:11 · 17 answers · asked by bidemi o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 07:55:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 07:54:51 · 23 answers · asked by Pat H 1 in Weddings

she's been together with him off and on for 2 years.she does not really love him but maybe cares for him.there's nothing much in their relationship, but bcos she has had many bad experiences in the past with other guys ,she doesn't want to let go of this relationship and try something new.in other words,she's scared to let go.the problem is,i am in love with her and i dont know what to do.i know that she's at least attracted to me ,but i dont know how to progress from there.

2006-12-08 07:54:35 · 22 answers · asked by steven c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having some problems with my husband, or should I say fiance cause we're not legally married yet but have been living together for over a year now..... So that would make us common-law husband and wife. Lately our sex drive has plummetted severely.... And he doesn't seem to care much about his appearance. I ask him to dress himself a little better and to please shave the beard he recently started growing (I hate facial hair). He's even started to put on a little weight, probably from the six pack he drinks every night. I'm certain that he is not cheating on me because he is home with me every day on his days off and is never home late after work. He never asks to go out with his friends. He's almost perfect, except for the recent problems previously mentioned. I love him very much but don't seem to find myself as attracted to him since his recent decision to just stop caring about his appearance. Help???

2006-12-08 07:54:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 07:54:32 · 19 answers · asked by seeyou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a best friend who is literally obsessed with her boyfriend. They have been going out for about a year. She sees him every week she does not really make an effort to see her other friends including me. Just wants to see him. She does not want to go to parties, single events, etc because of him. For their one year present he got her fudge and told her he hopes their together for a long time. She did not get him anything. They are both in their thirties. I do not feel this relationship is healthy because she is putting all her eggs in one basket. I do not feel this relationship is healthy. Is this relationship considered unhealthy?

2006-12-08 07:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 07:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by lajaraaaron 1 in Singles & Dating

I need help planning the meal for my wedding (The wedding will be April 21, 2007). I only want to spend between $300-$400 on the meal part; including plates, cups, napkins,etc. My mother, my soon to be mother in law and myself will be handling all the cooking, etc. What are appropiate dishes to serve? Meats, sides, veggies, fruits..etc. Any suggestions will be helpful and appreciated. Thank you!

2006-12-08 07:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by lostinflorida05 3 in Weddings

Ok me and my friend, have this problem, our aunt is wanting to get our cousins a gift, but she is having a hard time figuring out what to get, so the girls are 6 years old and 9 years old,and they are both really girly girl so if you can tell us what they might like because we are both older than them so we can't relate, what would you get.

2006-12-08 07:53:28 · 9 answers · asked by outdoor_girl93 2 in Friends

Is it because if men knew the truth, they wouldn't feel the same way about you?

NOTE: ugly and or fat women are too desperate to be worried about finding a man with money. They're happy with just having a man

2006-12-08 07:52:14 · 4 answers · asked by Black Atheist 1 in Singles & Dating

So me and this girl are best friends and have become pretty darn close. We always get along great and we talk at least once everyday. When we're alone at my house or her house we always have deep conversations and sometime I'll find ourselves holding hands or hugging on each other. We always tell each other we love one another. But she has also said that she doesnt like that idea of gays. I have no idea if she is just saying this to cover up or if she really feels this way. I mean we've kissed each other on the cheek and stuff and when I hang out with other people or a guy friend she seems jealous. How do you think she feels about me? What are some discreet way how i could find out?

2006-12-08 07:51:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He brags all the time how he is beating the system. He brags on he doesn't have to work , he is getting the government to take care of him. It just makes me angry because of his attitude. SO the questions is now what would you do?

2006-12-08 07:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by springer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 07:50:56 · 18 answers · asked by ahg30 2 in Marriage & Divorce