I got a problem. Theres this girl i like at college but im offically useless at talking to girls. My mate gives me the best opportunities to talk to this girl, but i just end up running away. Its kinda embarrasing for him as well cos i just left him stood there :(. She was even walking behind me once on her own and i still didnt say anything.
I cant even say hi and last time i talked to a girl i liked, i ended up stuttering like an idiot.
Whats wrong with me and what can i do about it??
2006-12-08 07:58:56 · 10 answers · asked by Rick G 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be your self and take you frend advice ceap on going
listen to your heart heck liten to ur m8 he will help if he dont what cr** m8 he is
2006-12-08 08:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Michael D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're just shy - I know its bad - Was the same myself.
Here's what to do:
1. If you like someone you have to not think about what you want. Concentrate on being a friend, funny entertaining, interesting etc, as you would with any normal friend,
2. Practice talking to LOTS of people, all the time. THis'll build up your confidence and ability to start making small talk.
3. When you do talk to her try to tease her. As if you were her big brother. She'll like it, you should too.
2006-12-08 17:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just shy - it happens to all of us!
I used to do Avon in my early 20s and I called to pick up a brochure from a house - the guy who answered the door was gorgeous and I couldn't get my words out - I felt a right berk! LOL!
Try and pretend she's just another friend of yours - don't panic you'll be fine! I bet you're not really useless at talking to girls!
2006-12-08 16:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Home_educator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the mind hun you have to think positive you can't carry on like this otherwise you will be very lonely,girls get nervous too you know just relax and be yourself,talk to her like you would a mate.
2006-12-08 16:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with ur mate and see how he talks to girls.
Girls feel the same way sometimes- i feel realy awkward talkin to guys i like some times!!!
2006-12-08 16:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by jazzjazjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just shy...that happens to all of us when we like some one but try and relax, smile and say 'Hi' see what happens after that...if it's good then stat talking to her...you'll soon get over your shyness.
2006-12-08 16:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lihanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just shy. next time this happens, tell yourself theres no way she'll ever like you if you keep running away from her.
2006-12-08 16:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by _heartbreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should pratice what you will say and stuff. pratice makes perfect. then u should be able to talk to any girl.
2006-12-08 16:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone,but once the ice breaks.Just don't try to be what your not when it does.
2006-12-08 16:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Butt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry we were all like that, it will all happen
2006-12-08 16:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋