i like this girl at chruch she is 15 i am 17. lasttime at chruch i look at her and then she look at me but noone smile. that next week she look at me like 15 secs but i look down on the ground. why am i too shy but i want to tell her my feelings .
2006-12-08 07:56:39 · 7 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice 2 U young sir is, patience, 1 thing I have learned in my 39 years of life is: slow and steady wins the race; Be a friend 2 this girl @ your church. Get 2 know her well be4 U even try 2 get a deeper relationship going with her. Be cautious of relatives of hers not liking U after U are 18, I've never had problems of that kind, but have heard about them.
Timothy
:o)
2006-12-08 08:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a crush - that is why youmight be shy. But girls dont usually ask the guy out so the best advice i can give you is just suck it up and ask her out there is nothing to lose because you want someone to like you the way you like them. So you just have to suck it up and go for it and hope for the best. which i think since you guys keep looking at each other then she might like you too. Go for it! Good Luck!
2006-12-08 16:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Little Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being shy is a personality thing....it was the way you were born.... i'm really shy as well. you just have to get over it and try to talk to her after church. bring up some subject that you might think would interest her and ask her out.
2006-12-08 16:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Shookoolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her first get to know her better then i would after a while ask her out and when you've been dating for a month or so tell her like "i rember when i first saw you that i loved you" or save it when you make a mistake girls like that but don't tell her up front cause then she'll think your creppy love takes time.
2006-12-08 16:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry just act like she is one of your friends you don't get shy around your friends do you maybe if you actually talk to her she would finally like you
2006-12-08 16:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by i love cookies!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you need to pray to god if thats the right person to be with. then you need to figure out why you like her.
2006-12-08 16:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then tell her your feelings this isnt going to get you anywhere if you dont make a move..
2006-12-08 15:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by bobbys_baby_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋