i have been dating this guy for a while and lately im just not sure if this relationship is working out. I mean he is probably the best boyfriend i have ever had but we never see each other. It is hard for us to talk about anything. And even though this shouldn't matter all my friends are saying I need to break up with him.
Ever since a couple days ago i just felt that there isn't any connection adn that maybe we weren't ment to be together
i wanted so much to make this relationship work out and now it isn't and i don't know what to do.
I don't want to loose him as my friend and thats some of the reason im afraid to break up becuase he may not talk to me again.
some other things about how i feel is that i feel i still have feelings for this guy i use to like before i dated my present boyfriend and i don't want him to think that im going to cheat on him becuase i wouldn't do that.
what do you guys think i should do?
if you think i should let him go how do you think i should te
2006-12-08 08:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Mystery 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You would not this to happen to you.
The truth is never easy to handle, but you know that something is wrong and dont feel comfortable in the relationship.
Break it him to him gently.
It is not fair to either of you by continuing.
Good Luck
2006-12-08 08:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel the connection anymore it's time to let him go he may be the best boyfriend you've had so far but you will find someone else just give it time. You should sit down and and talk to him and let him know where you stand. Maybe he feels the same way.
2006-12-08 08:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why is he best bf you ever had?? What has he done for you exactly? You said yourself you cant talk, theres no connection so what is there left? Maybe you can explain him that you wanna be friends. But if you cant talk try and think why it is. It surely is not love so why hang around when you could meet a true soulmate?
2006-12-08 08:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a good connection with a person you never see or talk to. Of course those things matter- being together and talking together = a relationship. It doesn't sound like you have one with him. Break up with him- there's very little between you anyway.
2006-12-08 08:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are starting to have feelings elswhere then maybe you should take a break from your boyfriend so that you can find yourself. Test the waters and see if thats what you want. Just dont tell your boyfriend that you want to date other ppl cus automaticaly he will think you cheated.
2006-12-08 08:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpio83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been with this guy? It might just be one of those normal feelings you have if you've been with them for a long time..
Maybe just don't talk to him for a while and think things through... and if you still don't think you should be with him, then break up with him b/c you'll probably keep thinking that the rest of the time you're with him.
2006-12-08 08:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him alone and break up with him and say can we still be friends because we are not connecting like we were. but lets still talk as friends and hug him goodbye.
2006-12-08 08:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Baby V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think u should let him go, if u guys can't talk about thing u are suppose to talk about, then that mean you guys don't trust each other. plus, if you don't see him much, that mean he's WAY to busy to be with you.
well let me know how it turns out...
2006-12-08 08:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by justine v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no good for him, so I say try someone else and find out if it's only you who's wacked.
2006-12-08 08:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋