What would you suggest as the first thing I should do to get with the here and now? I am very shy.
2006-12-08 07:57:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You already started your change with the rap music, I sincerely advise that you shake out the boredom of your system talk to your husband- I think your going through the routine phase in marriage, tell him how you feel and KICK BOREDOM IN THE BUTT.
2006-12-08 08:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Taz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel your pain. Start volunteering or get a part-time job. Meeting new people will help with the shy part and maybe put a little extra cash in your pocket. Spend some money on yourself if its been a while. Not talking about becoming a shopoholic but a new outfit, a new hair do and a pedicure can go a long way toward feeling confident. Then drag the hubby to a F.U.N party assuming you want to spend time with the hubby.
2006-12-08 08:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kewl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look around in your town to see if there are any womens clubs that volunteer their time for charity and other good causes. You will meet amazing women and it will help you see that there are so many areas you are needed outside of your home. I did it when I moved away from home with a new family and it really helped me through alot and kept me busy helping others. It will get you out for monthly meetings and luncheons and all kinds of neat things. Every town has them but you need to put your shyness aside so you can really start enjoying your life. You will feel so good about yourself.
2006-12-08 08:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine this is unusual to marry someone who's sufficiently previous to be one's father. as well, do you truly opt for to be replacing an previous guy's diapers sometime? Why not only date him for Mr. as we talk, for the journey of being with an older guy, get slightly spoiling and function some relaxing. If this is genuine love then so be it, marry the virtually geezer.
2016-11-30 08:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
The problem is that your not happy with yourself! Your sitting here bored and typing when you should be out exercising. JUST take a good look at yourself! Your fat, your double chin looking, wrinkled face from doing nothing but frons! DO you really really actually think that if you were your husband you would want to be with yourself!.
GET your act together and get yourself in shape and quit finding excuses for life! EVER think that LIFE just might not be happy with you
2006-12-08 08:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by gallagher g 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NANNA:
go to secretsinlace.com select something sexy for yourself , that will give you confidence about your feminity and then take in your funnest desires, music , opera theater, night clubs, or what ever and guess what you'll get noticed
2006-12-08 08:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get online and start chatting with people, learn to be less shy, then go out and get yourself some... :D
2006-12-08 07:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get off of the computer for a start.
2006-12-08 08:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get involved with your church's activities.
2006-12-08 08:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by ...mr2fister... 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you intend on cheating on your husband ?
If so, get on some of the internet dating/singles sites..
If not, find a hobby...
2006-12-08 07:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋