Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

I don't know what to do about liking my guy friend at work. He already has a gf in the Phillipines, which is where he's from and has been with her for the past seven years. He's been here in the US for the past five years. He even asked me to help him find an engagement ring for her, which i did. but then I began to like him as more than a friend. He would tease me and joke around. At first I thought he liked me, but now it turns out he just wants to be my friend. I'm okay with that, but I've noticed that he is talking to another girl at the office, you know teasing her. The problem is I find myselfe getting a little jealous and I'm not his gf. I feel like I have to get his attention some sort of way. Today I walked by his desk and most of the time, he didn't look up. What should I do?

2006-12-08 08:23:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For guys or girls 18 and older?
So I'm crazy about this guy but i don't know if he feels the same about me?We flirt when we see each other i would just ask him but he is 19 and im only 16 so i dont know what to do.
I dont know what to do!

2006-12-08 08:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today hasn't been the best of days right so far i've got up late failed to make any valuable additions to an essay i feel is shite, been ill all day with headaches, almost got into a fight with some gobshite in a landrover and to cap all that off i've just lost a library book due in today when i all ready have a ten pound fine.

in short i feel like ****.
add to this my all ready bad mood about feeling pretty much alone in the world relationship wise not that i'm incredibly bothered about sex or anything just right now i feel like i could do with some sympathy from my other half out there for those of you who believ in soul mates anyway my question is this....anything i can do to feel better?

2006-12-08 08:21:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont talk about sex when asking a question, nor do I use any F****N profanity. But yet they keep taking my damn points!

2006-12-08 08:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in yr 11.my geo. teacher is like 50 yrs old.b4 i was fine wit him,but then he started makin comments at girls like calling 2 girls "sexy in sweaters".then one day, he sent the all the guys to another class(let them watch a movie) and kept all the girls in.v asked y he was being so unfair,but he gave no gud reason.and he asked us all if he cud hav a picture of us all(it was non-uniform day) - but i stood up to him and told him that we dont want to.then he always only teaches properly 2 da girls.even my two other frnds hav noticed this.he always "flirts" wit this other girl coz she's such a stupid suck up. the list goes on and on.

my question is: wot shud i do??i dont com 4m da US, so i'm not clear on the "harrasment" laws (is it harrasment or am i being paranoid?).i dont want to create a huge thing for no reason.so i dont know what to do.but his bhaviour makes me an my frnds uncomfy,v even com late 4 his lessons(like 20 mins).v r 2 scared 2 stay bhind wit him in da classroom.

2006-12-08 08:21:18 · 9 answers · asked by (xerox-head) 5 in Singles & Dating

his son carmelo is looking for him in ny state. he also has another son named alex, there mothers name is miriam. his last known address was in puerto rico and before that fla. he also has step brother and sisters any info please get in touch ----- thanks reply to debbie he lives with me

2006-12-08 08:20:04 · 2 answers · asked by debd021261 1 in Friends

i went away last weekend and had a one night stand it was good at the time and i belive that he was single {thats what he told me} but i just feel ashamed and keep thinking he told me lies to get me into bed we were v drunk and i know i will never see him agan which i know is bad in away. he took my number but not heard a thing which means he ant intrested.. men do you lie when they away with the boys???

2006-12-08 08:19:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to each other but I let go, it wasn't the right time,I gave lots of explanations and he didn't fight for it, but I miss the jogging and maybe him,I can't get the nerve to call him, wha do u think?thankx

2006-12-08 08:18:59 · 4 answers · asked by gg 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year, but neither of us have had sex, we're both 18 virgins. She says she does want to have sex, and that 2 types of contraception are needed the condom, and the pill, and as she's not that keen to go and get the pill, then she doesn't want to have it? Is this normal? Should I be worried?

2006-12-08 08:18:34 · 20 answers · asked by ralf_ny65rj 1 in Singles & Dating

Absolutely no chance of getting found out... Would you do it?

2006-12-08 08:18:01 · 45 answers · asked by curious george 2 in Marriage & Divorce

10 points go to the most disturbing answer!

2006-12-08 08:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Just Me.... 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

K i wasgoing out with this guy and the second day that i was dating him i made out with him and i thought that we were dating because of the thins that he had said and done to me. at the end of the third day we had probabally made out like three times. then that night he grabbed my friend and started holding her hand and told her lets walk in the school like this and see what she says. my friend pulled away and told him no because he was going out with me but he denied it. i still like him because he said a lot of things to me and everyone i know is telling me not to date him because he will screw me over. he has done this twice now and i go back to him. then today he said i am going to the springs and you should come we can stay at the hotel togather. i said no but i am going to the springs with him and my friends what do i do and how should i act if he screws me over again????????????

2006-12-08 08:17:53 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole L 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I separated the day after Thanksgiving. He left my 6 month old daughter and I on the streets of a foreign city (his hometown) in the middle of the night. We had to sleep in the car because I was too tired to drive 4 hours to get home. He drained the bank accound (I don't work) and refuses my calls. He came to see his daughter once but it ended up with the police being called cause I was begging and wouldn't let him leave. He's given me NO money for the baby and didn't pay rent so we're getting evicted. He wants a divorce because I have a really bad temper. I would like to get counseling but he is not interested in resolving our marriage. He is meeting with a divorce lawyer tonight and is threatening to prove me to be an unfit mother and take my daughter from me. I know that will be unlikely in Texas but I want my family to stay together! What should I do? I know he's not having an affair, don't ask I just know he's not.

2006-12-08 08:17:19 · 33 answers · asked by newmom06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We haven't been dating that long, but I have never felt like this with any other guy I've dated. I haven't felt this....strongly for ANYONE ever in my life. Just the things he says and does, like how he treats me. It's just so perfect. And I know it's not an act. I know this because of conversations that we have had, and some of the things he has said.
Like everytime I talk to him, think about him, talk about him, see him or anything that has to do with him I can't stop smiling and I just feel so happy. Ever since he asked me out I've forgotten all about my troubles and everything has just been so perfect....
-cause I think I am. I seriously think I would die if I lost him. but the thing is..we're young, like....both of us are almost16
but like I said, I have NEVER felt like this for anyone before
DO YOU THINK AM I IN LOVE WITH HIM?!?!!?!?
and is there anyway to know??
Like..how do I know if I am
Cause if I am, I wanna know how/if/when I should tell him

2006-12-08 08:16:46 · 4 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 08:16:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i aint complianing at all but why most off the girls on myspace always show they assss or tittys on there profile
but again i aint got no problem a rather like it but why you think you got tot do that for your just attracting the wrong attention. dont you think?

2006-12-08 08:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by sam 2 in Singles & Dating

does he just want sex with me? geez i mean its not the first thing he says but it pops up

2006-12-08 08:14:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 08:14:46 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 08:14:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in the eight grade i am thirteen years old. I like this guy at my school. I knew he liked me. Suddenly the next day or today he stopped.He is really cute and i want to go out with him for a long time. Lots of girls at my school have boyfriends. I am popular and is apart of the popular club sometimes. They all have boyfriends i am the only one with no boyfriend. i dont want to wait till high school i want one right now.

2006-12-08 08:14:16 · 5 answers · asked by Regina W 1 in Singles & Dating

If yo have a Dlist you should send me your screen name !!

2006-12-08 08:13:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My story is long, it started 1.5 year ago, I fell in love with my teacher in the university, at first he dislike me, but as the time pass he started to like me. when i started to talk with him the things was diffcult cuz y get nervous, but after i began to feel at easy with him, principally cuz he gave the liberties: even he was hurry he helped me with the things i asked him, he was something special with me, we sometimes were flirtatous, in brief he was different with me. but he never take the initiative with the situatio, was me the one that create teh posibilities 4 be toghether, so i feel the thnigs don't was working so i decided stopped. so when i stopped he started to do stranges things like: be around to me, follow me, talk about me with his friend, spy me (he and hi friends). take me photos etc. so i started to talk with him again, and we were more flirtatous in fact in a pair of ocassions he suggested something about his house, but we didn't advnace in anyway.

2006-12-08 08:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by Muteki na Bengoshi 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey, an odd question, but... 2 years ago, my husband got a job with a different company and we moved to a new city. My problem is that I'm just not happy here. We've moved several times in the past and I've been fine. I just find that I'm not liking the people I meet and find it hard to find group activities, etc. He has a good job, and we have a nice home, but do I have the right to just ask him to find a new job so we can move? I'm a housewife with no kids, but always had a full plate of activities before, just don't understand why the heck I hate it here. thanks for opinions

2006-12-08 08:12:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

your sister. What's her number?

2006-12-08 08:12:02 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To kiss my girlfriend for the first time. We are going out tomorrow, and what should I do?

2006-12-08 08:11:40 · 29 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Singles & Dating

cuz he flirts with me, and says: IM JUST PLAYING WITH U! and does it agen and says wuzup baby!? and says agen (of course) IM JUST PLAYING WITH U! sooo...how would iknow?

2006-12-08 08:11:39 · 13 answers · asked by elly 1 in Friends

i send my ex b/f a mesage on my space sayin how r u doing and he hasnt wrote back?? for like 3 weeks now
i know he has a new g/f but their gonna break up soon and hes tight with all my friends but cant reply nothin back to me and im tight withall his friends wat is this
and he tells my friends he misses me i dont understand?
i just wanna be friends

2006-12-08 08:10:55 · 4 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is a pakistani and iam an american white female. he would like to take me to his country to meet his family. he also wants to marry me their, but if we get married there will i still be married when we come back to new york..thanks

2006-12-08 08:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When my daughter was pregnant with our grand-child her Mother in law would tell mutual friends that she feared my husband and i would monopolize the baby and never let her have the baby for visits or anything.She told people that we were possessive and that we didnt like her.
After the baby was born i sat this lady down and i told her she was wrong about my husband and i and i extended an open door invitation to out home to get the baby or visit when ever we had her.And her Mommy and Daddy were at school or work.She accepted and life went on.
Now she only wants the baby on her terms.She refuses to keep the baby when asked because she feels used.In 14 months she has kept the baby 4 times. She rarely visits and does not include the baby in any of her side of the family functionsShe still tells people that we wont let her have the baby and when we do it only because we need a setter. This person has me confused and a bit angry at the way she acts.What would YOU all do if it was you?

2006-12-08 08:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by mint_julip1122 1 in Family

2006-12-08 08:10:43 · 2 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Friends