My story is long, it started 1.5 year ago, I fell in love with my teacher in the university, at first he dislike me, but as the time pass he started to like me. when i started to talk with him the things was diffcult cuz y get nervous, but after i began to feel at easy with him, principally cuz he gave the liberties: even he was hurry he helped me with the things i asked him, he was something special with me, we sometimes were flirtatous, in brief he was different with me. but he never take the initiative with the situatio, was me the one that create teh posibilities 4 be toghether, so i feel the thnigs don't was working so i decided stopped. so when i stopped he started to do stranges things like: be around to me, follow me, talk about me with his friend, spy me (he and hi friends). take me photos etc. so i started to talk with him again, and we were more flirtatous in fact in a pair of ocassions he suggested something about his house, but we didn't advnace in anyway.
2006-12-08 08:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by Muteki na Bengoshi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i lost the patiente cuz i thouhg that he was interested in me about all 4 his actions (he spied me from his office 4 hours, he got angry whne i talked with another teachers or guys, and another like this), but maybe he cant take the desition, y could help him, so one day i plucked up the courage and i said him "you like me too much", he got nervous only smiled and said me "no" i asked him "you mean the answer is no?" ahn he said "no..... yes" then he didin't want talk with me, he scape form me when i tried to talk, when at least i could talk with him i said " i want talk about what happenned" and he told me "waht happenend? dind'nt happen anyhthing" y can't understand him waht tried to mean? i dislike him, wich i told him is not important for him? waht happens? what's you opinnion about it? ps, he's only 10 years oldder than me and is single
2006-12-08 08:24:52 · update #1
Hello Dear,
Make sure this guy is not pull your leg. It sounds like to me his is just flirting and it could be for sexual reason. The silly little things that are going on does not mean this guy loves you or even like you. Do not subject yourself to un-necessary heartache and pain behind wanting someone to love you and don't confuse the silly little attention that he is paying you for love or that he really cares. Remember some man thing with there little heads and not there big heads, he could very well have motive. good luck, they smart.
2006-12-08 08:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lil bit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men(people) like to flirt - we all like to believe we are attractive.
Reading your question two things strike me a) He's attracted to you - but is already in a relationship - so feels guilty about moving it on with you.
b)He sounds, frankly. dangerously obsessive and is probably the reason he's single.
Either way steer clear.
The thing is with the majority of relationships(not all) there is a period of happiness followed by a period of unhappiness. More often the happiness greatly outweighs the unhappiness thus 'better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all'.
I judge from what you've said a relationship with this man will cause you more unhappiness than happiness.
You are a unique person with so much to offer the world - keep your heart open and happiness can't fail to to find you.
2006-12-10 19:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by hugbobs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with Lil Bit but the thing about spying on you is a little wack. plus he is using hes friends to do it. i would say stay away from him the best u can. this guy sounds like trouble in the long run. love and obsession are to totally different things. good luck
2006-12-08 09:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by anubis113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a difficult situation but if i were u i would really think about my actions i mean sometimes u might think someone is flirting with u but really they r just trying to be friendly and also i think he might be messing with u i mean at first he does not like u then he kinda does i just think it all sounds alittle like he is unsure of his real feelings just be careful i guess i mean u dont want to get to attached and find that he is not interested and then be heart broken! well i wish u luck and hope everything works out !
2006-12-09 06:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by goodness gracious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋