I don't know what to do about liking my guy friend at work. He already has a gf in the Phillipines, which is where he's from and has been with her for the past seven years. He's been here in the US for the past five years. He even asked me to help him find an engagement ring for her, which i did. but then I began to like him as more than a friend. He would tease me and joke around. At first I thought he liked me, but now it turns out he just wants to be my friend. I'm okay with that, but I've noticed that he is talking to another girl at the office, you know teasing her. The problem is I find myselfe getting a little jealous and I'm not his gf. I feel like I have to get his attention some sort of way. Today I walked by his desk and most of the time, he didn't look up. What should I do?
2006-12-08 08:23:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl...that's a sticky situation...maybe his just a very flirty man but don't really mean it...either way his the sort of guy who can't be trusted especially if his about to marry some one.
2006-12-08 08:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lihanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say give up. This might seem pretty hard to do now, but wait a little longer and you'll never want to give up. And ,that would only cause you to hurt more.It is quite clear that he loves his girlfriend very much and him asking you to help him pick a gift for her shows that he is definetely not into you! So do what's best for you now ok.oh.. and he seems pretty good to me ..... friendly i guess.But that's no reason for you to want to be with him.He has his girlfriend.
2006-12-08 08:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello.. I am no longer worried approximately wether others believe what I believe..if I believe anything, no longer always the opposite has the equal feeling.. And furthermore for me its disguise the sensation..I dun like troubling others..for I have already stricken others plenty..and considered one of my peers mentioned it to me as soon as that i'm quite well at controlling my feelings and emotions..If I believe that it must be shared..I cross with it.. hi there.. :)
2016-09-03 10:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to be rude but i have to agree with the first answer. u have posted this question...or something similar to this question so many times its crazy. u have to get a grip on urself and ur feelings for this guy because u are letting it CONSUME u. its obvious u are thinking about him WAY more than he is thinking about u...and he's not even YOUR man. accept the FRIENDSHIP that u have with him and keep it moving.
2006-12-08 08:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to ask this same question?
2006-12-08 08:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋