Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

2006-12-07 06:56:15 · 11 answers · asked by sillyme24 1 in Singles & Dating

together before you got married? who made the decision? would you still be toghther if you were not married?

2006-12-07 06:55:59 · 15 answers · asked by lisa h 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 32 year old woman with 2 boys ,2 step kids, and a husband that I think is a wonderful man. I have been abused and mistreated by my first husband(my boys dad).I have been mistreated while growing up I think. I feel like I am close up in a shell. I had to run away from home at 18 and I had to run away from my first marriage when I was 26 and go to a shelter for abused women.My ex husband beat me,cheated on me, and mistreated our kids. After I finally left him, he killed 2 women which one of them was the woman he was cheating with. It is very hard for me to trust anyone. I am so jealous when it comes to my husband talking to other women. I take things like that and run it through the ground. My husband has cheated on me when we were dating. I am so afraid of getting hurt again. I think I brought alot of old baggage into our relationship. I love my husband. He's at home with me all the time, so I don't believe he is cheating, but I take little things he does and run with it.

2006-12-07 06:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by libra38566 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my fiance broke up and she said she wanted her space so i kinda have been giving it to her so today i was looking online for rings cause i wanted to get her a better one and everyone i sent to her she said no then i asked her to look for one and she found 5 of them is that a good sign for me or am i just thinking to fast and she was just continuing conversation women please let me know

2006-12-07 06:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by footballplaya263 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends mom came to me and asked me to take his son to school so i did. the next day she told me the same thing so i did, and now she wants me to drive him to school every day. he is a freshmen in high school and im a freshmen in college. his school is far from my school. what can i do now??? please help.

2006-12-07 06:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by alex d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 06:54:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this one guy a lot and he is always making me laugh and everything. Also This other guy is so sweet to me and he is really nice. Which one should I ask out?

2006-12-07 06:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by Emily C 2 in Singles & Dating

is a phrase that you'll NEVER hear anyone utter. I LOVE SEX.... duh, doesn't everyone? Women can say it all they want, but guess what... we already know you do, and so do we! Isn't "I love sex" the most redundant phrase ever?

2006-12-07 06:54:06 · 6 answers · asked by tazmanean_devil 2 in Singles & Dating

He mad because my ex-boyfriend came on my porch yesterday and touch my pockets. and I didn't say stop, so he got mad. and he told me not touch him and say nothing to him. so I got mad and went to hug my ex. And my boyfriend got even mader. Do you guys think I was stupid for doing that?

2006-12-07 06:53:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a feeling that this guy at work liked me, but I wasn't sure until he really started hitting on me at the Christmas party. We've being talking a bit and he really wants to "hang out" sometime but I'm just not interested in him as anything other than a friend. He's an awesome guy and I truly want to be friends, I'm just worried that he won't want to (he's constantly hinting at more). How do I fix this without hurting him or losing a potential great friendship?

2006-12-07 06:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:52:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a strong bond over many things, and we have a strong bond over shaving. Here is what we do. I shave his face, back of his neck and entire back and he shaves my armpits and legs and gives me a relaxing back rub. Granted, my husband could shave his own face and back of his neck, but he is not able to shave his back. It is not so much that he looks like a gorilla, but he would have some back hair if I did not keep his back shaved and smooth. Since I do keep his back shaved and smooth, I get the back rub. Sometimes even a massage on my feet. Some would say this is a weird arrangement, but how could something so WONDERFUL and doing something SO NICE for each other be weird? I hear of wives where their husband's will not even let them touch them with a razor. I find that sad. This is yet just another STRONG connection between my husband and me. What do married couples think of this arrangement?

2006-12-07 06:52:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 06:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by colebrown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 06:52:18 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly W 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on purchasing some sort of lingerie for me to wear before my boyfriend flys off to visit his parents. I've shopped at both places. VS is sexy cute to me and Frederick's has a little more of a "slutty" appeal to it. My bf is leaving for 5 days so I want to give him a good "going away xmas present" Any opinions? Thanks guys!!! :-)

2006-12-07 06:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by jenna 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i broke up a week ago, reason was "space". She tells me that she knows that where going to end up together but for now she needs space. but the thing i dont understand why would u need space from a person that you "love", "care" so much about?? shes told me that she sin't even taking off the pictures from her wall or wallet. what should i do, what kind of contact should i keep, should i ask her to chill with me as friends maybe see a movie. I was thinking of making her a love song cd for christmas. Should i just move on, this is so hard on me. I love this girl so much, would do anything for her. Some ppl where telling me to make it seem that i dont care about her. I like the saying " you dont know what you had until its gone" right??

2006-12-07 06:51:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:51:34 · 1 answers · asked by spoiled 1 in Singles & Dating

It's their 24th and I have no idea what to do. They hardly ever get to go on dates or spend much time together. Any suggestions?

2006-12-07 06:51:16 · 21 answers · asked by soccerislove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had this really great date last night with this guy. He was really nice and a lot of fun. when we were walking back to his car he leaned over and kissed me. I was ok with this because I wanted to kiss him except for one thing he was a really bad kisser. When we drove back to my car he kissed me again stil really bad. I really like the guy and would never dismiss someone because they can't kiss but I've never really experienced kissing like last night. It was bad I guess I should be more blunt he didn't use his tongue at all it was more like mouth to mouth resesitation. Ok I really want to go out with him again because I really like him but what do you do about this kind of kissing? Can it be fixed? Will it mean that he will be bad at other things eventually?

2006-12-07 06:51:07 · 21 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

(Please be mature about the answer you are giving, otherwise kindly ignore the question).

2006-12-07 06:51:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Gold diggers etc., females in general

2006-12-07 06:50:23 · 2 answers · asked by Kay-D 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me that he wanted to be with me forever , and someday have a family........hes 16 and i wanted to know what i should think , because no one has ever told me that before.i love him and he loves me ..............ne ideas

2006-12-07 06:50:15 · 19 answers · asked by status_sweet 1 in Singles & Dating

They hit on you more than thin single girls.

2006-12-07 06:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

tell me what to do!

2006-12-07 06:49:16 · 25 answers · asked by babbyshorty 1 in Singles & Dating

here goes..im 24 and married(it was arranged) I dont love my husband anymore he doesn't make me happy.The man I wanted to
marry has been in contact with me and said he wants me to be with him and i do love him(never stoped)..here is the problem..divorce in my culture is the worst thing u could do and i fear for my life if i do leave him(u know about honor killings,right?).the man i want to be with tells me if i cant file for a divorce now that i should runaway and be with him then i can file from there(different state)and he swears he wont let anything happen to me(i feel so safe with him).i really wan t to be with him but im scared of doing this.I feel as if they(husband or my fam)will track me down and have me killed for ''dishonoring them''(it's happened). Im so down and i feel stuck!!How would i go about filing for divorce if we got married overseas?I want nothing from him at all..I just want to be happy once and for all...plz understand I need serious advice....

2006-12-07 06:48:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Earlier I asked about my relationship with my son's father and he has issues because he's recently homeless and has shacked up with another woman he says he's using for money cuz she's putting him up in a sleazy motel. She's also staying with him but she has a home. I know that i should be getting over him and decided to seek meetings out to attend for support. But he wants to see his son and I say he can't cuz the woman he's with is trying to trap him with a pregnancy herself and she's 46 shacked up in a motel in virginia beach(possibly the Sundial) if anyone knows it . His mother is around the same age and he is 30! I really know he can't see our son if he's with that woman cuz he says she was sick of hearing about him talk about me and his son so I know she has ill feelings toward my son. He is 9 now and his dad has been in and out of lock up most of his life. We tried to make a go of this but he had to beresponsble and get a place and hold his job. Am I wrong for this?

2006-12-07 06:48:42 · 7 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

like on the cowboy films

2006-12-07 06:48:17 · 10 answers · asked by : 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy liked me, atleast last week he did, but when he found out that I'm a freshman he decided he didn't want to go out with me,because i'm younger. But i still like him, is there anyway i can look, act and sound like I'm older, because freshman boys are just soo immiture and i don't want to be with one, and I've allways liked older guys, not too old just like 2or3 years older. so what should i do?

2006-12-07 06:48:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Huge life decision: Move to Michigan to be with my boyfriend or have my boyfriend move to Illinois to be with me? Michigan is where we grew up, both families are there, but it's a small town and I think I'd be bored there. Illinois (Chicago) is more fast paced and fun, but it's more expensive to live, my boyfreind would have to quit his good job and find another one, and long term living in the city isn't what I really want, just for while I'm young and childless... I just really don't know what to choose. I need to choose by March- that's when my lease is up.

2006-12-07 06:48:13 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

seems her hands would be coldest-mine are today

2006-12-07 06:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating