Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

Alright guys, what do you look for in a girl?

2006-12-07 06:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by A.J. 4 in Singles & Dating

She has had one divorce and is now separated from her second husband. She hasone son that is 12 and a step daughter that is 21. Here husband still lives with her. The 23 and the 40 are having relations. Is this healthy and is this even normal.

2006-12-07 06:29:23 · 8 answers · asked by watlimh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with a guy that beat his ex wife...and he hits the girl he married after he and I broke...I wonder sometimes if the reason why he didn't hit me was because he loved me too much to hit me or did he not love me enough to hit me.....Not that I wanted to be hit...I just wonder how he thinks...

2006-12-07 06:28:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:28:28 · 22 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

bye

2006-12-07 06:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by linda c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i let my marriage be one with endless enjoyment, love, respect, peace, i want my husband and i to be happy and share a bond. and how do i/we keep our sex life great and fun, any tips or tricks anyone?

2006-12-07 06:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. there was this random girl i saw biting her lips and looking at me. What does she mean?

2006-12-07 06:27:07 · 19 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

well me and mi boifriend been goin 2gether 4 a year and one day
when we we're talin he wuz like i lubv u and all dis other stuff a month later come 2 find out he wuz cheatin on me wit mi best friend and i wuz like how r u goin 2 say u luv me and ur cheatin on wat do he think iam?

2006-12-07 06:27:06 · 2 answers · asked by nisa 1 in Singles & Dating

explain in detail.

2006-12-07 06:26:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 35, live at home with my parents, work part time at Blockbuster and have no car.

Why won't anyone date me?

2006-12-07 06:26:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I have been together 2 years (i am 36 he is 40) and he recently proposed. I accepted but I am having second thoughts. I was married before for 15 years and did not want anyone to know until I told my ex. I felt that because we have 2 children together nad numerous years, I should tell him rather than him hearing it second hand. Needless to say, it did not go well and he has been calling me every day since, sending me emails of our wedding song and so on. I don't want to hurt him over this because we are still very good friends and he knows that part of our lives is completely over, but obviously not as over for him as it is for me. Now with all the stress, I am starting to hav second thoughts. My b/f is very good to my children and my family adores him. I am content with him, but I find myself comparing him to my ex husband and pointing out what I consider to be faults. I know he is not my ex and that is not fair, but I just can't help it.

2006-12-07 06:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by Cali Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 06:26:20 · 18 answers · asked by AnswerGeek 4 in Family

even if the artist is the worst singer on earth but writes their own music i would respect them more than a artist that sings well but doesn't write there own music. wat would be the point of being a singer if u don't write your own music! For example some ppl hate Avril Lavigne but i respect her beacuse she writes her own music. what do you guys think?

2006-12-07 06:26:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:26:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-07 06:25:32 · 12 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i have been with one for 5 yrs and he is so protective, jealous, and thinks i am his slave. just wondering if any other females have experienced this. iam a white american female, just living with him.

2006-12-07 06:25:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i talked to my ex the other day and he told me that if it didnt work out with his current gf he wanted to know if i would take him back...and i go idk...and he goes ok. then he goes ive actually been hoping that u didnt find anyone so that i might be able to get back with u ...and ur the only other girl i could ever love. and he goes u know i still love u and i always will and he still has a gf and he goes no one loves me and i go thats a lie...ur gf probably does and he goes no i dont think so....and i go well i love u and care about u and he knows i meant it in the way of friends so he didnt take it wrong....anyways....i was talking to him and he goes yeah well i love u and i dont mean that just in a friend kind of way...and then yesterday he got mad at me for something i didnt even do and we started fighting about it...its like we are still going out except without the benifits....u know like kissing and stuff...but everytime we see each other we hug each other and the other day.

2006-12-07 06:25:03 · 5 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25. I have been with my fiance for four years. We were engaged this past spring. I love him and our life. I have never cheatd on him before. We don't have an open relationship but I long to sew my wild oats while I'm still young, before I settle down for good. There is a man my age who is willing to indulge in a purely physical relationship with me, no strings attached, and it will only continue for as long as I like. Those are the terms. And it is as important for him to keep it our business as it is for me to keep it secret from my fiance.

2006-12-07 06:24:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm dating this guy. He's really sweet and we get along well. I want to keep seeing him. Here's what's bugging me. My friends have always been guys because I love sports. Now I'm afraid to spend time around guys that I like because somehow I feel guilty when I'm checking them out and thinking that they're cute and I'd like to get to know them better. I don't actually want to date other guys. But when I find one of them attractive I start feeling guilty. I'm afraid they won't want to be friends with me if I talk about my boyfriend all the time, although of course I try to mention him so that they know.

2006-12-07 06:24:48 · 15 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by brinleysmom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do they fall short of the mark. How and why either way.

2006-12-07 06:24:17 · 5 answers · asked by michael g 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

To not want to have sex with his wife?or have a really low sex drive? I have been married 2 1/2 years and my husband and i have only had sex 10 maybe 11 times . I feel very sextually frustrated and dont understand what it could be?I have kept my figure exactly the same as when we met if not better. I take care of myself and am always there for him when he needs me.I even cater to him when he is home nothing gets his attention not even me doing the house work/cooking in sexy under wear or naked i tried that and he told me to put my clothing back on.When i asked him he just said he is just not into sex!

2006-12-07 06:24:10 · 29 answers · asked by Kelly W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of one year has told me he wanted to get married but he "wanted to do it right". He wants to buy me an engagement ring and get married soon. But, today I found out I'm getting some unexpected money(a large amount) and could not wait to call him. Well, he busted my bubble when he said, "we can get married really soon then, I can just use that money to buy you a ring". I was shocked, but I told him, if that's how you want it, forget it, the ring is not that important for me to have to buy it. I should explain that we have lived together for 8 mos and I'm divorced from a guy who I had to buy my own engagement ring because he did not have a strong work history and was always working for just temp agencies. since i made more money and wanted one i bought it. but i have always put that on the "list" of stupid things i did i that 2 year marriage. my boyfriend has always been a good provider, but he can be "tight". i feel completely devasted. or maybe i'm just carrying baggage.

2006-12-07 06:23:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Only one month ago I ( 26 years ) met a nice guy ( 36 years ) through yahoo msngr, the relationship went very very fast to love, I do love him very very very much and he says he does as well, he lives very far away in one of Canada's canton, he says that he can't wait to see me in personal but he doesn't have the money to buy the airplaine ticket to my country , to be very honest he didn't ask for any money but I offered to borrow him the required amount, so he accepted this suggestion and promised to return it back on monthly basis, the total amount he needs is U.S. $ 3'000

I didn't transfer the money yet , my question is :
is it normal that a man accepts the help of the girl he just met, does he really love me, or he is playing around and try to have an advantage of my love to him ?

I'm really worried if this was something very normal, would it be ever a dislike for me ( in our future ) that I paid him the money to come & see me, would it be considered ever against me?

2006-12-07 06:23:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a family secret, told to me by my Mother, involving my two brothers. It's potentially a life-altering whopper. We are all middle-aged adults now; Mom's 80. I have carried this burden for many years and feel that I should come clean with my brothers; my sisters don't think so. What do you think?

2006-12-07 06:23:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ellie C 2 in Friends

in a relationship?

2006-12-07 06:22:16 · 25 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Singles & Dating

I need your opinion.?
My boyfriend gets jealous if I talk to my guy friends. He doesnt try to control me by saying I cant talk to them. I dont find it fair, he can talk to all his friends that are girls but I cant get jealous. But if I talk to my guy friends then he flips out. I am not trying to make him jealous. I am afraid to talk to my guy friends b/c he will get jealous. Then if I do talk to them I tell him about it. Another thing, he can mention a girl is hot, but if I mention a guy being hot, he gets all insecure. Not fair. One more thing, he got a phone call from one of his girlfriends at 145 in the morning saying she cant sleep if he wants to talk. If one of my guy friends were to do that, he would be pissed. Am I being unreasonable here? What do you think?

2006-12-07 06:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by Maria S 1 in Singles & Dating

you know...the ones that dont come out every day...the kind that you are half afraid of...the ones that make even you blush...or do you not let them out at all..?.;0).

2006-12-07 06:22:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm confused as to if I should try to save this friendship or should I just end it. We have had sex a few times over the course of about 6 months. I'm not sure that we can ever really go back to being platonic. He knows how I feel and doesn't want sex to interfere with our friendship, but I know that deep down he's hoping that we will continue to mess around. The sexual attraction that we have for one another is so strong that I'm sure our friendship won't work. At this point I think that we should become serious or just go our seperate ways. Am I right?

2006-12-07 06:21:57 · 6 answers · asked by Llenal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:21:29 · 24 answers · asked by Lydia P 1 in Singles & Dating