I had this really great date last night with this guy. He was really nice and a lot of fun. when we were walking back to his car he leaned over and kissed me. I was ok with this because I wanted to kiss him except for one thing he was a really bad kisser. When we drove back to my car he kissed me again stil really bad. I really like the guy and would never dismiss someone because they can't kiss but I've never really experienced kissing like last night. It was bad I guess I should be more blunt he didn't use his tongue at all it was more like mouth to mouth resesitation. Ok I really want to go out with him again because I really like him but what do you do about this kind of kissing? Can it be fixed? Will it mean that he will be bad at other things eventually?
2006-12-07 06:51:07 · 21 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He probably hasn't kissed many girls, and those who he did kiss never taught him how to do it properly.
If you really like him, then date him and take the time to teach him how to kiss. Practice makes perfect.
2006-12-07 06:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys can be "trained" to kiss better once you've been in a relationship with them. Try to kiss them back the way you kiss or like to be kissed and they should take the hint. If not, you could always ask them to kiss you a certain way. Talking about that sort of thing is usually a last resort, if ever at all. Try to show them first. And it definitely does not mean they'll be terrible at other things. You never know until you try ;o)
2006-12-07 14:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by KJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easily fixed. Yes, you can keep dating him and the next time he goes to kiss you, just grab his face, look him in the eye and say "This is how I like to be kissed!" and kiss him with all the fun stuff you enjoy. If he protests or gets upset that you're coaching him, just say "Well, I was under the impression you were the kind of guy who'd want to make a girl happy". If he still gets upset, he's not open to critisism and you might as well just move on.
2006-12-07 14:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a suttle romantic way to guide and lead him. You will have to take control... and other things may turn out to be better than you could imagine. There are alot of bad kissers out there and a lot of good ones.....kissing is so important, it's usually the intiating point so if you can try to work with him by indirectly giving direction.
2006-12-07 15:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by weary minded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure can.I've been told that i am an excellent kisser ..just give him your version of "kissing 101". Show him how its done. Apprently he's a virgin kisser and needs some help in the fine art of lips that can move as well as get you really HOT.Umm I am gettin turned on by my answer.LOL
2006-12-07 14:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play follow the leader.
Kiss him the way you would want him to kiss you.
If he is a quick learner (lets hope he is)he will get the picture.
If not then give him a little time to learn.
But in my experience this always works.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-07 15:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Ashley 2 u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him how its done in a passionate matter because there is a fine line between passion and embarissment if you do it wrong it could embarrase the hell out of him and make him self conciuess about himself and not want to kiss you anymore and if he sucks at kissing he could be the best in bed in the world
2006-12-07 14:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by mongo3434 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just taking it slow. I think it's sweet that he doesn't go right for the tonsilectomy.
Over time, he may become a more aggressive kisser. If not, show him how it's done.
2006-12-07 20:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him how you would like him to kiss you, you don't have to be blunt just kiss him the way you would like him to kiss you.
2006-12-07 14:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he kisses better at the Y
2006-12-07 14:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by tkd28282003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋