this guy liked me, atleast last week he did, but when he found out that I'm a freshman he decided he didn't want to go out with me,because i'm younger. But i still like him, is there anyway i can look, act and sound like I'm older, because freshman boys are just soo immiture and i don't want to be with one, and I've allways liked older guys, not too old just like 2or3 years older. so what should i do?
2006-12-07 06:48:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out what he likes and ask him to it.
2006-12-07 06:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to act or look older if you have to do all that then maybe someone your own age is just what you need. If you are a freshman that means you're about 14/15 don't be in a hurry to grow up especially to attract an older guy, you'll just get your feelings hurt in the end.
2006-12-07 06:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Forever_Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my guess is, if last week he liked you and now he changed his mind, then maybe you need to proove a little more to him. Also if his decision is based on you being a freshman, then I myself would look at his ways of being a stereo typing. It could be a key thing to his character, that he is not secure enough with himself to risk take it.
The other thing is, as you have a preference of older men, he may have his own to. People are people and we should look at them for who they are not a general status. Just like there may be guys your age that are "older" acting, just like you but because they are freshman you may be passing them up. It's a status thing to me. Start seeing people for who they are maybe?
Best wishes!
2006-12-07 06:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 18 and you are under, he may not want to be involved with you. Don't get too desperate and do anything you may regret. You have plenty of time to find a nice boy who likes you.
2006-12-07 06:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you concentrate on getting your diploma and have some respect for yourself.
It is only going to be a one night stand.
You cant beleive that this older man is interested in anything but sex.
2006-12-07 06:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch girls that are a couple years older than you and see how they dress and act and talk. Use that information as a guide.
2006-12-07 06:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you know what you want, and you want him. Some men, including myself, like dating older women because they know what they want. In life and in a man. Older women are not afraid to tell us what they want from us or need from us. Sometimes it's hard to figure out a woman. How she's feeling, what she wants spiritually, emotionally, sexually, without her actually having civil conversation with us. We tend to like women who don't play games and usually the older ones don't play games, they understand that in order to get what you want out of a relationship, you have to let the other person know. We are not psychic.
We like women who are confident about who they are. Ones that don't have to wear a lot of make-up, or do crazy things with thier hair. We want them to act themselves. We want to see them laugh, see them cry, see them feeling lonely, see them feeling friendly. We want to know the real woman. Not the woman she thinks she needs to be. Confidence is the key. A smile is all the confidence we need most of the time.
So my advice to you would be to look him in the eye and smile. Let him know you want to get to know him and you want him to get to know you. When you look at him, look at him like you're looking at your favorite desert. You know how your eyes open a little wider and you smile? That's the look! That right there tells us you are interested. Then if he acts on it. Go with it. Above all, be yourself! Not who you think he wants you to be.
2006-12-07 06:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy has based his decision to date you solely on your age he probably isn't worth dating. Don't try to get him to go out with you. Invest your efforts into someone more deserving.
Good luck :).
2006-12-07 07:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Flora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act mature when your around Him!! and don't act to shy!!
2006-12-07 06:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lil T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, you should just grow up
2006-12-07 06:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋