Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

My oldest daughter is 14. She has two younger siblings (11 & 7). She is constantly jealous. Step-mom (who she adores) asked her to write a "list" of those she was jealous of. She wrote 6 pages!!!!! Is there a real problem here? She bullies her brother until he nearly cries. (he is 11). Any ideas? Our extended family is loving and supportive. We don't know what to do!!!! Thanks.

2006-12-07 07:31:55 · 17 answers · asked by Susan Gould 2 in Family

The way they talk, the way they walk, the way they look so beautiful, the way they are so sweet, and the way they care so much about you, and the way they have a sense of humor. And I could go on.....I love women so much and I can't express it enough.

2006-12-07 07:31:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He smiles at me a lot and winks. He gives me butterflies in my stomach EVERY time we are alone together, but we have never done anything more than hugged. We have never talked about our feelings.

2006-12-07 07:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by texasgirl5454312 6 in Singles & Dating

i think i am starting to like my ex boyfriend again but he has a gf what do i do?

2006-12-07 07:30:56 · 23 answers · asked by ~~~~brit~~~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to do something nice and sweet for her. I thought of having flowers delivered to her at the hotel, but they'd be hard to transport back on the plane.

I'm thinking of getting a romantic card and hiding it in her suitcase, so that she'll find it once she gets there.

Any other good ideas?

2006-12-07 07:30:52 · 15 answers · asked by jairman2004 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so at the school library 2 weeks ago me nd my 3 friends called monique, Nilan and Natasha, so nilan was writing on a piece of paper & communicatin wif monique,nd den natasha grabed the paper nd made a weird face, and nilan started laughing, and i felt like it was about me, but i didnt say anythin, so the today wen we were bak at the library ,we were workin on a story nilan stuff's fell she piked it up nd then i found a paper belonging 2 her, i opened and read it nd it was the paper she wrote 2 weeks ago nd nilan wtore this "wanna com to my x-mas party?but PLEASE dont tell Sorina(which is me). but they didnt no i saw it nd threw it out ,
And also lasy year was the same thing nilan didnt like me but den likes me,but now i dunt no, nd i have known Nilan for 4 years now.
Wht should i do?I kno they are not real friends,but if i say i dunt wana hang uot wif u (which i rlly wanna say) but then i will have no one else 2 hang out with,i rly fink i shud change skewl but not bcuz of dat only

2006-12-07 07:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i want anyone's opinion. my bf watches porn, i know thats normal all guys do that, but ive never had a bf that actually watched it or told me about it hes the first. the thing that bugs me about it is that hell watch it right in front of me knowing that it bugs me. but the thing that really pisses me off is right after hes done he wants to have sex. Im i wrong for getting mad, because he gets mad at me for getting mad at him. please i need advice!!!

2006-12-07 07:30:35 · 17 answers · asked by Daisy123 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 07:30:27 · 13 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies if you haven't been good to your guys, come on now's the time. Put on some music and chill. Don't bicker and nag us for one day huh? Let us watch football all day on Sunday, let us make a mess of the house for once, let us just be guys. Don't wonder where we are all the time, we're not out cheatin' we're just having alone time.
here are some things all you chicks can do with your spare time okay:

1. Cook us a really good dinner
2. Wash our cars
3. Clean the clothes
4. Vacuum,dust,windex the windows,feed the fish
5. Knit us a nice warm sweater maybe lol who knits?
6. Pay the bills
7. Iron some shirts if need be

So ya see, there's plenty for ya to do when ya got some down time.
i hope you all know i'm just messing with yas? Just can't wait to crack up with the responses from the gals.
Merry Xmas

2006-12-07 07:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend...we really like eachother and want to be together and we have faith and confidence in eachother...should we be together or no? we live on either ends of the country. would it work out??? we really like eachother.

2006-12-07 07:29:57 · 3 answers · asked by shru 1 in Friends

hey, okay get this. i was dating this guy that i have know for awhile but when we started dating his ex girlfriend said she was having his babies. she said that before me and him got together. but i asked him if he wanted to be with her he said no that he wanted to be with me. then we broke up over something really stupid. so now that we broke up he started goin gout with his ex again. i am not really mad about it and i want to put it in the past and be friends with him again and he is being a A** to me for no reasons what do i do?

2006-12-07 07:29:40 · 20 answers · asked by ~~~~brit~~~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on the phone with a guy that I have a crush on and he tried to blackmail me into having sex with him. He tried to become between me and a friend. Should I ditch the friend or guy?

2006-12-07 07:29:37 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Friends

1 girl is making my life misery
shes in my class and i have such strong feelings for her
i cant sleep at night i can only think of her
she has a b/f
and i respect that. i know it would be wrong to come in the way but i just want to be a close mate to her
she treats me so horribly but she dont notice it. everyone keep telling me to leave her dont talk to her and ive tried
everyday we keep etting further away
i know she dont give a damn
i hate not being close to her. i love her soo much
my heart literally hurts whenver i think of my situation
what shall i do?
plz need advice
plz be serious

2006-12-07 07:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for married couples - how was it, did it affect your marrige, was it with someone you knew or a stranger

the wife and i talk about it all the time but have not had the chance. she is not as excited about it as i am, more because of the preganancy belly she has being embarrasing to her(self confident about it)

2006-12-07 07:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Acee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

durring math, he stabbed himself with a pencil. and at lunch, he tried asking people for siscors to stab himself. everyone was like dont give him sissors. his best friend gave him the sissors and i think thats ****** up and so did everyone else. after lunch wwe called the police and he got tooking away to a place that helps you. some people in my class were crying i feel bad cause im his close friend. what should i do?

2006-12-07 07:28:19 · 24 answers · asked by Shaggy_Knight 3 in Friends

Hey guys. Im Jason cristiano.

Im jus a bit confused rlly cos theres a rlly pretty n sexy girl in my class at college and we gt along n stuff but sumtyms i dunno whether she knows shes doin this or wat but she cheks 2 c over her shoulder and then it seems everytime im anywhere beside her she jus keeps bending over and for no reason most of the time and her g-strings or thong wtevas she is wearin is in clear sight. n then when ive gone she sits back normally and smiles at me.

can any1 tell me what the hell is goin on ere please!? shes nice but i jus duno why this keeps happenin 2me?!

thank guys n girls!

2006-12-07 07:27:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont really know this girl very much but she has a bad reputation. She had an affair with a married man and had twins by him and she has been known to sell pills from time to time. I saw her selling pills the other day with her kids in the car. Should I call the proper authorities or mind my own business?

2006-12-07 07:27:38 · 33 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6 in Friends

2006-12-07 07:27:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u cant forget about someone then maybe they are supposed to be there???


Do u believe it?

2006-12-07 07:27:21 · 3 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Singles & Dating

OK, I met this guy recently. Very cute, funny but I am already sensing jealousy and I haven't even sexed this dude yet. He wanted to see me yesterday and I had to pick up my nephews from school, this cat was basically telling me he wanted me at his job by 6pm, when I told him I couldn't be there that soon he then tells me ok "OK, me give you till 6:05" I'm like yeah whatever. So naturally since you think you're going to tell me what to do - I didn't go. this fool called me over 30 times !!!!!!!! I did not take his calls at all. It's obvious that this man is a jealous dude. I don't want to have to fight no man (but I will, don't get it twisted) but I don't want to go to jail either. So my question is should I keep seeing this man and just have fun, or should I fall back because he might be expecting more than I am willing to give. Did I mention he was a cute *** Jamaican man !!!!! Sexy !!!! I know, i know.....that's not what it's about.

2006-12-07 07:27:17 · 1 answers · asked by nikkid6910705 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 07:26:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what attracts you to other people,Be honest would you prefer to go out with someone gorgeous that can hardly utter a word OR an average attractive person that says things that make your heart melt? Guys and Girls answers.

2006-12-07 07:26:18 · 44 answers · asked by kel s 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm new to this so bear with me..... i'm going through a divorce. she left me and she says it's my fault which some of it is.... but, i've never cheated on her and she's cheated on me. i found out that the night that i left.....she was sleeping with my so called friend. so, i don't want her back but, what do i do about the pain. not only am i hurting badly on the inside.....but, i also feel a huge sense of betrayal. i am getting therapy but, my therapist has never even been married. how do i get over this so that i can just move on and how can i help convince my self not to go back to her if she tries to get me back. i don't want to be cheated on any more. please help. thanks everyone

2006-12-07 07:25:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This boy he's like my best friend.He's like,everything to me.He talks to me,plays with my hair sometimes.And pokes me.Just stuff like that.He also named me squishy.He said when he pokes me,my skin is flexible and squishy.But lately,My friend shelby.Said he's been doing that top other girls.Including her.I've known him longer,than a lot of girls.But lately,she's been doing that.ANd hangs around my best friend amelia.But if i'm not friends with shelby,she wil try to make amelia not be my friend.And it doesnt work but earitates me.anyways,back to the boy,his name in nathaniell,But he sais he doenst do it to her,or other girls.And i am his friend.Who should i believe?I'm cought between two.I'm ij 6th grade and i know this is ,normal,but i dont know what to do!I mean,he talks to me,he astcs like he likes likes me but then,here comes shelby and goes ''oh guess what he did to the pther girls in history''and tells me things.I dont know what i should do.He is also realy fun to be around

2006-12-07 07:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 07:24:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not jealous but she is crazy after a man tells another woman that he loves this other woman and not you, why does she all of a sudden end up pregnant and use her money to control him because he does not have enough to be a man to support himself. After hearing all of you guys input I really start to not like him anymore either. Anyman who can't control himself long enough to be with the woman he calls his true love and virtuos and not take care of his responsibilites yes he is a loser. What do you do when you have 10 years of deep feelings and they get crushed overnight? I am seeking counseling don't get me wrong but it will just take time. She and him will not last and they are losers! Holla!

2006-12-07 07:24:21 · 1 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 07:24:16 · 30 answers · asked by bubbles_n_ar 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont think i like this new hardwood floor i rather get carpet

2006-12-07 07:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by nikkiiscreepy 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this guy to a barbeque my roommates and I were having. He said, 6:30? I don't get off work until 7:00, usually. I said, Well, we'll still be doing stuff and I could save you food. Then, as if he was pissed that I'd ruined his excuse, he said, Well, maybe I'll see you and maybe I won't. What's up with that? Then I couldn't ask another date, and I was already stuck making all the food. In the end, he didn't come. Then I didn't hear from him for two weeks and he said, "oh, sorry about the other night. A machine broke at work and I had to do everything manually." still, he has my number and could have called. I think, Does he hate me? but then he comes over and flirts with me!!!! Arg!

2006-12-07 07:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jessthemess 4 in Singles & Dating

I just got "back out there" after seven months of not dating. The last two ladies I was with it just turned to crap because I dont know if I should move on or if I should just stay away, one ended last night terribly becasue of my innability to accept change...I just need some help.

2006-12-07 07:22:19 · 8 answers · asked by mycarpultunnel 3 in Singles & Dating