hey, okay get this. i was dating this guy that i have know for awhile but when we started dating his ex girlfriend said she was having his babies. she said that before me and him got together. but i asked him if he wanted to be with her he said no that he wanted to be with me. then we broke up over something really stupid. so now that we broke up he started goin gout with his ex again. i am not really mad about it and i want to put it in the past and be friends with him again and he is being a A** to me for no reasons what do i do?
2006-12-07 07:29:40 · 20 answers · asked by ~~~~brit~~~~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him you don't want him n e ways how is he going to spend money on you if he's payin it all out child support
2006-12-07 07:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Brit,
Well, they say history repeats itself. Just wait a while and he will be back at your door again.
Let's review what we know.
a. He got his ex pregnant, and they break up. I doubt very seriously that a pregnant woman is going to break up with guy that got her with child. So, he broke with her. Probably when he found out she was pregnant.
b. You get him on the rebound, and then he breaks up with you over nothing (meaning, he planned it), and goes back to her.
Conclusion: Why on earth would you want to be friends with a jerk. From what you have told me, the guy is a genuine for real jerk. I would highly suggest you forget him and move on to bigger and better things.
You deserve much better than him. Find you a guy that will appreciate you, and treat you with respect, then you will find out what a good relationship is all about.
or:
If you are a glutton for punishment, just wait a little while, and I guarantee, he will back wanting you again. and then he will leave you again for her . . . . . . . .etc. Then it becomes a matter of how long you want to stay on this merry go round that is going no where.
Do you see the insanity of having anymore to do with this bum?
I took a little time on this one, because I and many others do not want to see you get hurt. You deserve better than that. We all got your back. Don't let yourself down, he's not worth it.
Darryl S.
2006-12-07 15:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do nothing other than to ignore him as if he is going to be a father and is seeing the ex again, there is no place in the scheme for you. I would avoid places where you are likely to have contact with him to give him no chance to be horrible to you. Breaking up with this person is probably a good thing as he has too much baggage, so just turn it into a positive and move on.
2006-12-07 15:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey--you tried!! Forget about the friendship idea and be glad you had a chance to walk away before you got more sucked in to his drama filled life. Don't look back....keep on going. There's no reason why any action is called for on your part at this point. When you examine this situation closer, you'll see it as a smart move.
2006-12-07 15:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being an *ss to you because A) he is an *ss and B) dont you think his ex will surely have a problem with you guys still staying friends ?? What should you do ? Forget about him all together and move on.
2006-12-07 15:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being this way to you because she has told him to do so. She must have some kind of hold on him.
If I were you I would just move on and forget his existence all together. Leave it alone girl and find a new man.
2006-12-07 15:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be friends with a ex right away. Forget about him. Make sure you look happy and your best at all times just in case you run into him. - He will wonder why you look so good and are happy without him.
2006-12-07 15:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to be friends with him, but from his side of things, he doesn't seem to share the same sentiment. I'd forget about trying to "force" a friendship" if he is being mean to you. That's not a "friend". Move on.
2006-12-07 15:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cruel Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it! His ex and he are trying to work things out, (and have babies together!), and you are wanting to hang out an be friends?! What do you think his 'ex' is saying about that? Move on, and leave them alone, cause doesnt sound like he is worth it.
2006-12-07 15:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by renegade_dancer5678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trash the guy, if he didn't want to be with a woman who was gonna father his child until you dumped him, he really isn't worth being friends with. find yourself someone honorable and leave him behind
2006-12-07 15:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋