durring math, he stabbed himself with a pencil. and at lunch, he tried asking people for siscors to stab himself. everyone was like dont give him sissors. his best friend gave him the sissors and i think thats ****** up and so did everyone else. after lunch wwe called the police and he got tooking away to a place that helps you. some people in my class were crying i feel bad cause im his close friend. what should i do?
2006-12-07 07:28:19 · 24 answers · asked by Shaggy_Knight 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just try to be strong and be there for him. He'll need a good friend to help him through what ever is bothering him. Best of luck to both of you.
2006-12-07 07:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe omg i am so sorry to hear your story. as i was reading this..it really made me think back to a few years back when i was having the same problem with one of my friends. first off.. you did the right thing.. sometimes, people have so much emotion.. that they dont know what to do and killing themselves seems like the only option. well.. i dont know what was going on at his home.. but the thing is.. suicide is not the way to go. did he mention anything to you before today? well there is a good thing about all this ev en though you may not realize it.. he is now in a place where he can get help. whatever you do.. dont lose touch with him. there are going to be a lot of poeple that are going to think he is weird and a freak for doing this. you must stay strong.. and keep your faith that everything will be okay.. the kid that gave him the scissors is not a good person.. he doesnt realize what that could have done! and i am sure you know this. but what you need to do is just make sure you are ok first off.. second.. you need to call the place where he is at.. or find out by his family.. and see how long he will be in there. get the address and call or mail hima letter. let him know you will not leave his side. although distance might be pulling you two appart.. he will always be with you. so.. as i said.. keep faith, and dont give up. i honeslty hope everything works out with your situation. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU!
2006-12-07 07:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then, continue to be his close friend. What he needs now is people who are his friends. There must of been something terrible going on with him to want to kill himself. By doing what he did, he was crying out for help, which by calling the authorities you got him the help. But don't shut him out, he is not contagious, he is still your friend. Would you want everyone to turn their back on you if you were ill? Contact his parents and let them know that you care and ask if there is anything you can do for him, like bring him his homework when he is ready to do it or ask when you can visit with him. And by all means, pray for him.
2006-12-07 09:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad AT ALL!!! What u guys did was really good!!! He was probably a very depressed soul....People like that can be treated with the correct medicine..medicine for the MIND!!! If he stayed at home, he would've killed himself anywez....So what u guys did was give him a second chance to live....to find his way through..... So, instead of feeling bad, be happy about the good deed u guys did. Just make sure that u visit him so that he feels that people miss him and care about him!!! I wish him all the VERY BEST!!! take care!
2006-12-07 07:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pray for him. And feel comfortable knowing he is going to get the help he needs. Something is going on in this young persons life that is making him feel overwhelmed. And now he will be around professionals who are able and willing, well trained to work with people in these types of situations. I will keep your friend in my prayers. You could possibly if you wanted to call him mom/dad and tell them to let him know you are praying for him and want him to get well soon. Good luck to your friend. And God bless****
2006-12-07 07:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know somebody who said he was gonna kill himself today. Just because a friend of his got molested and is now dead, he thinks its his responcability to end his life because of it. Hes gone for help many times before, and suicidde has been a thing he has attempted already. People have issues. talk to him and ask him what's going on. sometimes, people say nothing, just just keep asking him, he needs to obviously talk about something. good luck. i hope hes OK.
2006-12-07 07:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really a good friend you need to let him know that you are there for him if he needs someone to talk to. Sometimes actions like his are a cry for help. Just be really supportive of him getting help and talking to people when he is down.
2006-12-07 07:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your mind be content. your friend is getting the help he needs. I had a friend kill himself when I was 16 and I have never forgotten how I felt. stand strong for getting your friend help before it is too late
2006-12-07 07:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sh!t!!!!! maybe he was upset 'cause today's the Pearl Harbor anniversary? LOL just kidding, maybe you guys should have a support group or something started at your school for kids who have problems and need other people with the same problems to talk to?
2006-12-07 07:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your his close friend, be there for him, support him. Talk to your folks about it and see what they say. Bring him his favorite magazines or a cool book he would like to read. I'm very sorry that happened to him.
2006-12-07 07:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋